I have had it! I can not take anymore. This is supposed to be a site for
ADULTS well there are a bunch of us that sure are not acting like it. I
am sick and tired of it. How much more can one put up with it? I came to
this site to get away from the BS, not to deal with more of it. This
site has got me so mad right now. It is not funny. A site that when I
joined use to be a peaceful place.

I am sick and tired of rules not being enforced here. Why is it they
really seem to be different from one person to the next? Somebody Please
explain to me that question.

The main question I would also liked answered is not for me, but for
Lex, and yes I am going to stick up for him. Because this guy means a
LOT to me. When he hurts I hurt. And I am sick of hurting. I have had
enough of it in my life. So if somebody can answer me this question I
will stay.

In what way was it appropriate for someone to say "eat a d**k" to a
newbie? How can you justify or excuse that sort of behavior?

If I sound harsh and if I am offending ANYBODY, then all I have to say
is SUCK IT UP PRINCESS! If you can not take the heat then get out of the
kitchen. I am sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. I use to LOVE
this site. And it pains me to see so many people bashing so many others.
What happen to JSH? What happened to all the laughs, the good times, the
sharing the LOVE. I miss my family. I miss my HOME!

So before I end this post I will ask the question once more:

In what way was it appropriate for someone to say "eat a d**k" to a
newbie? How can you justify or excuse that sort of behavior?"

whisper.........you're not gonna leave again, are ya??

If my question does not get answered the possibility looks good.

Oh geez..........No one can justify that. No one should say that you
anyone. If you're having a problem with somebody, tell them to take a
hike and just block them. I'm sorry you're upset hun.

Whisper,

I wish I could explain it, but I have no words to justify talking to
any newbie or anyone else that way for that matter.

But then again, after today, who am I to say anything at all?
I am just sorry that I read that thread and didn't do anything at the
time.

Lex, I am truly sorry for not saying anything at the time.

Lily why are you laughing?

Well, in case I am not here when you post your adios....SEE
YA!!

i'm against censorship on public forums. if someone tells another
member to "eat ****"...it looks bad on the person SAYING it...not the
receiver of the abuse.

i WANT to be able to read what has been written...i don't want threads
and posts to be removed, because those words give key insights into the
person behind the words, good or bad.

Fine you have every right to voice your opinion. The truth needs to come
out before an peace can be had.

Someone has to whisper.......to block out all the cryin!

Spay was wrong for saying that....but get over it!! He was told on and
reprimanded.

Okay....who needs tissues?

So I take it Lily you can not answer the question?

Here, I will answer your question. In no way, shape or form should that
be said to ANYONE, at all. Whoever said that you either you or Lex (who
is also a friend of mine) should be banned. But that's just my opinion.
If there are people on here that are giving you trouble, I have a nice
little group of friends that will call in the army to end it.
lol.......But in answer to your question, it should have never been
said, plain and simple. Don't leave......This will all blow over.
There's been too much going on lately and too many people leaving. I
hate to see this happen because I indeed have made some wonderful
friends on here. I almost had a problem with someone on here as well,
but he left, not me. And he was on here before I was. So hun, just let
it go. I know you're hurting and I feel your pain. I've had a few choice
words said to me in the past, but I got over it. If you need someone to
talk to, I'm your gal.

((( Whisper )))))

I am so sorry that I can not answer that question,,, amoung many others
I can say I hear what you are saying and the only real ones to answer
this would be Mike and Van,,,

I see nobody crying her Lil. But yet Spay keeps doing these things
wrong and he is still here. so NO I will not get over it. If you know he
was wrong then why encourage him?

Uh, what WAS the question.....I nodded off.......


lulu, you are ALLRIGHT!! Nice to meet ya, my friend!

i think some adults need to grow up its not nice to say things like that
to anyone and this site is supose to be fun come on what happened to the
rule do to others what you want done to you, come on everyone lets
treet eachother with respect and grow up i like it here i just joined
not to long ago and i want this to stay a fun site ,

there really isn't a way to fix immature, stupid, irrational, ignorant,
mean people. i mean they can censor certain words but they kinda go on
the honor system that you will abide by the forum rules and if you
complain enough about certain members they may block them or terminate
their account. so far i haven't met a lot of sick idiots on here, but
then again i don't post often either. its too bad people still have to
behave like kids rather than adults.

if the question is to someone why dont ya email them? or they might not
know its a question for them ...

and you as well, lily!

i'm glad to be here.