Topic: is it shallow of me...
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Wed 01/28/09 03:16 PM



F**K what these women say if you cant do it then you just cant... you have to have sex in a relationship for it to work... and how can you have sex with someone if your not attraced to them... for all you fat girls there are guys out there WHO LOVE IT... so stop B***HIN


i don't know about anyone else, but i absolutely hate when people refer to overweight women as 'fat girls'

especially when they are nothing to write home about either.


Thank you!


see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...

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Wed 01/28/09 03:18 PM
so say what you must i myself like a BIG girl... this post was not about me though... HE does not like BIG women... so NO he sound NOT feel bad

RKISIT's photo
Wed 01/28/09 03:18 PM

Am I shallow for letting a woman's weight influence my decision to date her? i don't mean 5-15 lbs overweight - more like 25+ pounds

-other than her weight I quite liked her
its your life do what you think will make you happy.

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Wed 01/28/09 03:18 PM
see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


maybe 'overweight'?

it just sounds a lot less offensive and why would you want to consciously hurt someone's feelings?

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Wed 01/28/09 03:22 PM
Edited by mixmantech on Wed 01/28/09 03:23 PM

see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


maybe 'overweight'?

it just sounds a lot less offensive and why would you want to consciously hurt someone's feelings?


oh so callin someone overweight would not hurt there feelings????lol!!!!! i dont go up to people and say it to there face... and strong people dont let things like that hurt there feelings anyway

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Wed 01/28/09 03:25 PM
and once again I LIKE "OVERWEIGHT" GIRLS

LouLou2's photo
Wed 01/28/09 03:27 PM
Gotta wonder what happens as our bodies change over time...with use, age and maybe illness. What does one do then...when someone we love doesn't look as they once did?

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Wed 01/28/09 03:29 PM

Gotta wonder what happens as our bodies change over time...with use, age and maybe illness. What does one do then...when someone we love doesn't look as they once did?


well im not married or anything even close... but a life long partner, i wouold think the love would always be there no matter what

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Wed 01/28/09 03:33 PM
I agree, all things change, people change in looks all the time, hair loss, weight changes, etc. I think the person inside is the most important. When we are 80, we will not be great "bods", but we will be able to love and be loved :)

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Wed 01/28/09 04:12 PM




F**K what these women say if you cant do it then you just cant... you have to have sex in a relationship for it to work... and how can you have sex with someone if your not attraced to them... for all you fat girls there are guys out there WHO LOVE IT... so stop B***HIN


i don't know about anyone else, but i absolutely hate when people refer to overweight women as 'fat girls'

especially when they are nothing to write home about either.


Thank you!


see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


"B***HIN."?noway

What you're saying is disrespectful to women, IMO.

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Wed 01/28/09 04:15 PM


see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


maybe 'overweight'?

it just sounds a lot less offensive and why would you want to consciously hurt someone's feelings?


oh so callin someone overweight would not hurt there feelings????lol!!!!! i dont go up to people and say it to there face... and strong people dont let things like that hurt there feelings anyway


well it might still hurt their feelings, but at least it'd prevent the caller from sounding like a jerk.

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Wed 01/28/09 04:20 PM
well I am thin & my girl is a lil thick but beautiful in my eyes..its what makes the world go round..to each there own..I believe everybody is meant to find somebody..to love..I dont need or want to be beautiful to the whole world ..Just 1 man..and I will be happy if I am everything in his eyes..

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Wed 01/28/09 04:30 PM
I don't think it is shallow. I have dated a number of heavy women in the past. They had a lot of qualities otherwise that I really liked. I am slender, athletic, and am extremely active. I have gotten to the point now where am not really interested in anymore heavier than "a few extra pounds". I have realized that the reason I don't find them as attractive is not because of the weight itself but the problems I have had with sharing physically demanding activities with them. The most recent woman I dated that I had this problem with began complaining during a 5 mile bike ride we took. She would not even consider trying snow boarding with me to see if she might like it. She was extremely inactive which is something I have learned that I do not enjoy.

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Wed 01/28/09 04:33 PM



see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


maybe 'overweight'?

it just sounds a lot less offensive and why would you want to consciously hurt someone's feelings?


oh so callin someone overweight would not hurt there feelings????lol!!!!! i dont go up to people and say it to there face... and strong people dont let things like that hurt there feelings anyway


well it might still hurt their feelings, but at least it'd prevent the caller from sounding like a jerk.


ok so go tell that to somebody who goes around calling people fat

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Wed 01/28/09 04:34 PM
:banana: I'm pretty fly for a fat guy:banana:

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Wed 01/28/09 04:34 PM





F**K what these women say if you cant do it then you just cant... you have to have sex in a relationship for it to work... and how can you have sex with someone if your not attraced to them... for all you fat girls there are guys out there WHO LOVE IT... so stop B***HIN


i don't know about anyone else, but i absolutely hate when people refer to overweight women as 'fat girls'

especially when they are nothing to write home about either.


Thank you!


see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


"B***HIN."?noway

What you're saying is disrespectful to women, IMO.


guys B***H about things to ...dang smokin you two need to chill out ima go hump on a FAT girl goodnight

Winx's photo
Wed 01/28/09 04:35 PM

:banana: I'm pretty fly for a fat guy:banana:


You know it.:banana: :banana:

papersmile's photo
Wed 01/28/09 04:41 PM
guys B***H about things to ...dang smokin you two need to chill out ima go hump on a FAT girl goodnight


yeah, sure you are :wink:

Mr_Music's photo
Wed 01/28/09 04:43 PM

guys B***H about things to ...dang smokin you two need to chill out ima go hump on a FAT girl goodnight


yeah, sure you are :wink:


*SNORT!* rofl

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Wed 01/28/09 04:46 PM
Edited by mixmantech on Wed 01/28/09 04:55 PM



see B***HIN.... i used to be 300 pouds and what did girls call me???hMMMMM fat and i WAS fat.. i dont sugar cout things for poeple who are not head strong ... if not fat then what .. big girls ... large girls.... biggins.... or do i lie and just call them skiny...


maybe 'overweight'?

it just sounds a lot less offensive and why would you want to consciously hurt someone's feelings?


oh so callin someone overweight would not hurt there feelings????lol!!!!! i dont go up to people and say it to there face... and strong people dont let things like that hurt there feelings anyway


well it might still hurt their feelings, but at least it'd prevent the caller from sounding like a jerk.


you make no sence.... tahnk god your pretty... i did not talk bad at anyone here... so if sittin there talkin **** on the internet makes you feel better...well then im happy for you