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Topic: I think I love you......
DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:34 PM
I Love you!

Ok who wants to go to Vegas??? :tongue:

Only 5 hrs from here

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:38 PM

so what are the right reasons to get married then??


Good sex
temporary insanity
delusional thinking


Oh... good reasons. Got me.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:40 PM



so what are the right reasons to get married then??


uhmm...well...uhhh...hmmm...yeah...nope...guess there aren't any...



Less taxeslaugh


Hey, there may be some validity here... Hmm. Oh wait, think ahead, to alimony. Nevermind.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:40 PM


so what are the right reasons to get married then??


Good sex
temporary insanity
delusional thinking


Oh... good reasons. Got me.


laugh laugh laugh

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:42 PM




so what are the right reasons to get married then??


uhmm...well...uhhh...hmmm...yeah...nope...guess there aren't any...



Less taxeslaugh


Hey, there may be some validity here... Hmm. Oh wait, think ahead, to alimony. Nevermind.

no sh!t!

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:43 PM
If you love the person then yes its the logical step what else is there im not sure what you want a blood test.........an xray.........a pap smear...................wth

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:45 PM

I am a former chef, so okay!

And I love babies, so I will warn you...

I might try to steal yours too!


Nothing box is good.
Nothing box is wise.

indifferent indifferent indifferent

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:50 PM

If you love the person then yes its the logical step what else is there im not sure what you want a blood test.........an xray.........a pap smear...................wth


I thought this at one time too, however most people have no clue what love actually is, they THINK they are in love then get married, however if you TRULY love someone and you know they TRULY love you back then yes....maybe..

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/25/09 10:57 PM


If you love the person then yes its the logical step what else is there im not sure what you want a blood test.........an xray.........a pap smear...................wth


I thought this at one time too, however most people have no clue what love actually is, they THINK they are in love then get married, however if you TRULY love someone and you know they TRULY love you back then yes....maybe..


That's why I did it the last time, and why I'd do it again. I'm still going to be a smartass about it until the last second before I put the golden handcuff on.

Tanzkity's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:02 PM



If you love the person then yes its the logical step what else is there im not sure what you want a blood test.........an xray.........a pap smear...................wth


I thought this at one time too, however most people have no clue what love actually is, they THINK they are in love then get married, however if you TRULY love someone and you know they TRULY love you back then yes....maybe..


That's why I did it the last time, and why I'd do it again. I'm still going to be a smartass about it until the last second before I put the golden handcuff on.


But isnt that the most amazing thing about being human that we have the capacity to love............and being love isnt a guarantee its work.........and so thats what makes our lives so distinct from animals...........why dont we accept our faults and acknowledge our mistakes and learn from them instead of generalizing and compartmentalizing everything to a box..........love regardless if it hurts or if it makes us happy its unique and it should be felt by all...........no matter how many times it comes in your life............fear is a ridiculous feeling that doesnt let you grow it only makes you complacent.........

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 01/25/09 11:16 PM




If you love the person then yes its the logical step what else is there im not sure what you want a blood test.........an xray.........a pap smear...................wth


I thought this at one time too, however most people have no clue what love actually is, they THINK they are in love then get married, however if you TRULY love someone and you know they TRULY love you back then yes....maybe..


That's why I did it the last time, and why I'd do it again. I'm still going to be a smartass about it until the last second before I put the golden handcuff on.


But isnt that the most amazing thing about being human that we have the capacity to love............and being love isnt a guarantee its work.........and so thats what makes our lives so distinct from animals...........why dont we accept our faults and acknowledge our mistakes and learn from them instead of generalizing and compartmentalizing everything to a box..........love regardless if it hurts or if it makes us happy its unique and it should be felt by all...........no matter how many times it comes in your life............fear is a ridiculous feeling that doesnt let you grow it only makes you complacent.........


I don't question my feelings, but often question the amplitude of my feelings, which is perfectly normal for this brain. We humans are not the only examples of commitment, and I am beginning to think we're one of the worst examples. Complacency is not any part of who I am and at the same time, survival instinct is sometimes the best instinct I have. I know that the best form of love is the kind that is given without reservation and without expectations. Once in a while, I get to be fortunate enought to live up to that ideal in acts of kindness. Those are the days I remember that keep me moving in spite of any other hardship.

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Mon 01/26/09 06:30 AM

I Love you!

Ok who wants to go to Vegas??? :tongue:

Only 5 hrs from here


Honey, you know I would if it weren't for two things.

1) I am married to Goof and Catwoman
2)I did the Vegas marriage thing and all I got was a t-shirt that said, "Vegas..... Queens take you men and pimp your women".

prisoner's photo
Mon 01/26/09 06:43 AM
:smile: "Marriage doesn't bring 2 people closer together...it actualy tears them apart."...James Bond in Quantum Of Solace...be seeing you

no photo
Mon 01/26/09 06:48 AM

So why not get married right? I mean...it is the "next step" in the process right? frustrated frustrated

NO!!!!!!!

It isn't. I say this cause I know of someone who is about to get married because "Dude! It is the next step. Gotta make an honest woman out of her yanno!"surprised rofl rofl

No wonder the divorce rate is so high in our country.


It's that sort of zombified lockstep mindset that causes SO much trouble....

When you take "the next step" with your eyes (and mind) closed, you might be walking off a cliff....


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