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If he was really interested, he'd find a way to get there...my advice...move on...cheers
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Ok.
It's much easier blaming the universe than him, but I think you're right. Because I really am getting sick of the disappointment... So what do I do? Just...? Because he'll probably want to reschedule our date for tonight once he's feeling better...what do I do? Still talk and text knowing that if he cancels one more time that's it? it seems a little cold-hearted. |
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Ok. It's much easier blaming the universe than him, but I think you're right. Because I really am getting sick of the disappointment... So what do I do? Just...? Because he'll probably want to reschedule our date for tonight once he's feeling better...what do I do? Still talk and text knowing that if he cancels one more time that's it? it seems a little cold-hearted. The world is cold hearted...dump him and move on
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Ok. It's much easier blaming the universe than him, but I think you're right. Because I really am getting sick of the disappointment... So what do I do? Just...? Because he'll probably want to reschedule our date for tonight once he's feeling better...what do I do? Still talk and text knowing that if he cancels one more time that's it? it seems a little cold-hearted. Look at it like you can take it or leave it. Because really, you can. You don't need all the BS.
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We've been talking for two months though. But...yeah. It was only two dates.
lol. I'm just...too nice for my own good? |
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Edited by
Jill298
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Fri 01/23/09 10:54 PM
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We've been talking for two months though. But...yeah. It was only two dates. lol. I'm just...too nice for my own good? Maybe he was sick. Maybe. Hopefully he wouldn't lie. But truthfully, anyone can be good over the phone and emails for 2 months. |
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Agh. Hopefully. I feared it would come to this.
Thanks for the help. :) All of you. |
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I'm so sorry
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lol, don't be. You weren't the one canceling on me.
Besides, I kinda thought this would be the advice I got. I just wanted to check and make sure I wasn't being too paranoid that he wasn't actually sick. because who gets sick only when they have a date? WHO? lol. |
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lol, don't be. You weren't the one canceling on me. Besides, I kinda thought this would be the advice I got. I just wanted to check and make sure I wasn't being too paranoid that he wasn't actually sick. because who gets sick only when they have a date? WHO? lol. |
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nope it doesn't...oh well.
I'm actually not as sad about this as I thought I would be. Go figure. |
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nope it doesn't...oh well. I'm actually not as sad about this as I thought I would be. Go figure. |
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Makes sense.
I'm just a sucker for his apologies. And I'm worried about that. |
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Makes sense. I'm just a sucker for his apologies. And I'm worried about that. And I always try to be hopeful and give people the benefit of the doubt. But there's a difference between that and letting them walk over you. It's a hard lesson to learn. We automatically think just because WE think this way, or we wouldn't treast him this way... why would he do it to us?? But, they do...
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Yeah...I just don't get why he would say he was sorry if he didn't mean it. Because if we don't see each other...well, he's not getting anything out of the relationship either. So it really just doesn't make sense.
Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants? agh. |
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Yeah...I just don't get why he would say he was sorry if he didn't mean it. Because if we don't see each other...well, he's not getting anything out of the relationship either. So it really just doesn't make sense. Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants? agh. |
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True. But, then again, I don't really understand lying at all. But that's just a me thing. I don't do it.
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I need help. How do we fight the universe? How do we survive You don't. You don't fight it, and you don't necessarily give up either. The more you fight it, the more the universe fights back. |
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True. But, then again, I don't really understand lying at all. But that's just a me thing. I don't do it. If it makes you feel any better, I don't get it either. I'm way to logical of a person for all that. It just makes no sense to me. And men call US hard to understand
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Yeah...I just don't get why he would say he was sorry if he didn't mean it. Because if we don't see each other...well, he's not getting anything out of the relationship either. So it really just doesn't make sense. Maybe he just doesn't know what he wants? agh. Sometimes I just kick myself for not reading the whole thread. |
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Look at it like you can take it or leave it. Because really, you can. You don't need all the BS.
And I always try to be hopeful and give people the benefit of the doubt. But there's a difference between that and letting them walk over you. It's a hard lesson to learn. We automatically think just because WE think this way, or we wouldn't treast him this way... why would he do it to us?? But, they do...
If it makes you feel any better, I don't get it either. I'm way to logical of a person for all that. It just makes no sense to me. And men call US hard to understand