Topic: so confusing...
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Fri 01/23/09 09:37 PM
this girl had been texting me non stop since tuesday and we hung Tuesday wednesday and thursday (at her request) and she even asked me Wednesday like 4 times to go visit her at work. Anyway last night she asked if I liked her and I said yea and tonight I asked her if she liked me and she said no lets just be friends. I don't get why she texted me @ like 8 am everyday asked me to hang out even wanted me visit her at work and she just wants friendship? I mean she texted me more than I did her I didn't push anything I don't get it

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Fri 01/23/09 09:41 PM
Maybe she's lonely... Doesn't have any friends and you are the first person who has come along in a while and has given her the time of day... I dunno... Just a guess.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:43 PM

Maybe she's lonely... Doesn't have any friends and you are the first person who has come along in a while and has given her the time of day... I dunno... Just a guess.

nah she had friends and a twin sister she's super close to I don't see why she needed me

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Fri 01/23/09 09:44 PM
We are man, and we can never understand women. (LOL)
And she might have found a new guy.
U can do better than her.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:44 PM
Could be for a lot of reasons good or bad but the only one that counts is that she's not interested apart from friendship so it's up to you to decide ok or not.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:47 PM
I already told her no and ended everything we had. Im not playing games

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Fri 01/23/09 09:51 PM

I already told her no and ended everything we had. Im not playing games
good call. Run. Run as fast as you can.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:52 PM
I've never heard of someone texting so much just to hang out, but not have any interest in that person. what That's just weird and can get annoying.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:52 PM


Maybe she's lonely... Doesn't have any friends and you are the first person who has come along in a while and has given her the time of day... I dunno... Just a guess.

nah she had friends and a twin sister she's super close to I don't see why she needed me
she doesn't "need" you if her reply was no, I just wanna be friends.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:52 PM

this girl had been texting me non stop since tuesday and we hung Tuesday wednesday and thursday (at her request) and she even asked me Wednesday like 4 times to go visit her at work. Anyway last night she asked if I liked her and I said yea and tonight I asked her if she liked me and she said no lets just be friends. I don't get why she texted me @ like 8 am everyday asked me to hang out even wanted me visit her at work and she just wants friendship? I mean she texted me more than I did her I didn't push anything I don't get it



She probably needs to get her Prozac prescription filled or something. It's either that or she just doesn't know what she wants.

Either way, you're probably better off telling her to go choke on a tire.

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Fri 01/23/09 09:53 PM


I already told her no and ended everything we had. Im not playing games
good call. Run. Run as fast as you can.


Now THAT is keepn' your pimpin' strong!

two thumbs up!

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Fri 01/23/09 10:21 PM
she's trying to make you addicted to her...like a drug...bring you up..bring you down...all within her control..

roco

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Fri 01/23/09 10:22 PM

this girl had been texting me non stop since tuesday and we hung Tuesday wednesday and thursday (at her request) and she even asked me Wednesday like 4 times to go visit her at work. Anyway last night she asked if I liked her and I said yea and tonight I asked her if she liked me and she said no lets just be friends. I don't get why she texted me @ like 8 am everyday asked me to hang out even wanted me visit her at work and she just wants friendship? I mean she texted me more than I did her I didn't push anything I don't get it


She sounds lonely to me and if you like her as more than a friend I would see this as a danger signal. Good luck

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Fri 01/23/09 11:24 PM
Sounds more like she doesn't know what she wants and is wasting your time with her indecision. If she knew what she wanted, she'd be getting it by now.

You're best served by just walking out.

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Fri 01/23/09 11:31 PM
Sounds like someone came back to pay attention to her again........you could have been a boost of confidence she needed...........some women are shisty like that...............

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Fri 01/23/09 11:51 PM
lol @ some women

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Sat 01/24/09 01:00 PM
I'm glad it didn't work out to be honest. I had like no attraction to her (don't want to sound mean, but shes not very easy on the eyes) and I doubt any guy likes her shes just really weird.

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Sat 01/24/09 01:08 PM

I'm glad it didn't work out to be honest. I had like no attraction to her (don't want to sound mean, but shes not very easy on the eyes) and I doubt any guy likes her shes just really weird.


Hmmmm... a little different from the OP....

fickle thing, aren't you?

if she had of said yes, I suspect her being 'not so easy on the eye', would not have come into it.....huh grumble