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Topic: I've had it
IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 01/20/09 09:49 PM




He didn't know it was you.. You busted him, he did what he did and will do it again... I know it sucks but he opened the door, if it were me I'd walk out and never look back...
I know it in my heart your right


I've seen some of my friends experience the exact same thing... It never worked out for the better..
thanks and I deserve better.


Yes you do...

kc0003's photo
Tue 01/20/09 09:50 PM
Edited by kc0003 on Tue 01/20/09 09:51 PM


pam, you so don't deserve that kind of behaviour. move on and save yourself the trouble of having to do it later...
hi sunshine have missed you.Thanks Kevin why I always pick the bad boys I'll never know




the inherent need to want and be wanted can be blinding. when one sees someone for who they truly are it is up to that person to remember that "is" who they will always be... it's the escape that some seem to have a problem with...

good to see you tonight...

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/20/09 09:53 PM
Oh I have been here and this is truly not good..........he wanted you not to be here so you wouldnt see him flirting I think.........I met a guy on line and we started having a relationship............he eventually without telling me had aliases and that really creeeped me out when I knew................for one I wasnt doing anything but the usual chit chat and for him not to trust me sent me a message that he was the one not trustworthy...............mind games are useless........its up to you what you want to do........

no photo
Tue 01/20/09 09:57 PM

Oh I have been here and this is truly not good..........he wanted you not to be here so you wouldnt see him flirting I think.........I met a guy on line and we started having a relationship............he eventually without telling me had aliases and that really creeeped me out when I knew................for one I wasnt doing anything but the usual chit chat and for him not to trust me sent me a message that he was the one not trustworthy...............mind games are useless........its up to you what you want to do........


YOU GET IT!!! When one accuses, one cannot help but wonder.... is it ye? He who doth accuseseth me???

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/20/09 10:04 PM


Oh I have been here and this is truly not good..........he wanted you not to be here so you wouldnt see him flirting I think.........I met a guy on line and we started having a relationship............he eventually without telling me had aliases and that really creeeped me out when I knew................for one I wasnt doing anything but the usual chit chat and for him not to trust me sent me a message that he was the one not trustworthy...............mind games are useless........its up to you what you want to do........


YOU GET IT!!! When one accuses, one cannot help but wonder.... is it ye? He who doth accuseseth me???


Ditto girl...........

pkh's photo
Tue 01/20/09 10:04 PM


Oh I have been here and this is truly not good..........he wanted you not to be here so you wouldnt see him flirting I think.........I met a guy on line and we started having a relationship............he eventually without telling me had aliases and that really creeeped me out when I knew................for one I wasnt doing anything but the usual chit chat and for him not to trust me sent me a message that he was the one not trustworthy...............mind games are useless........its up to you what you want to do........


YOU GET IT!!! When one accuses, one cannot help but wonder.... is it ye? He who doth accuseseth me???
I'm done even wrote alittle poem about it,thanks for all your input.I knew but it was nice hearing others thought so too.

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/20/09 10:09 PM



Oh I have been here and this is truly not good..........he wanted you not to be here so you wouldnt see him flirting I think.........I met a guy on line and we started having a relationship............he eventually without telling me had aliases and that really creeeped me out when I knew................for one I wasnt doing anything but the usual chit chat and for him not to trust me sent me a message that he was the one not trustworthy...............mind games are useless........its up to you what you want to do........


YOU GET IT!!! When one accuses, one cannot help but wonder.... is it ye? He who doth accuseseth me???
I'm done even wrote alittle poem about it,thanks for all your input.I knew but it was nice hearing others thought so too.


flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 01/20/09 11:05 PM
Signs A Guy Is Bad News

He moves a lot; usually around when his girlfriend runs out of money or a job.

He plays the role of the super "nice guy" kind of seems like no other guy you ever knew. Very attentive in small non-committal ways.

He will send you music, a poem, or some seemingly sentimental gift. Unknown to you usually something someone sent him or he has sent to previous girlfriends.

He starts showing up when you don't expect. Or his friends do and you have the vague feeling someone is around a lot. They are. Wolves tend to run in packs.

He either doesn't talk about the trail of ex girlfriends or they are all defective. He doesn't have a normal relationship with his Mother.

He flirts a lot but when he finally does get around to asking you he makes it feel or sound like you asked him.

He wants to know your schedule down to the minute.

He likes you to work one or more part time jobs. Your busy so he can play.

He starts slowly but surely picking off your friends. Pitting one against the other or insinuateing things he knows will distance you from them. He makes you feel like a failure at friendship so you are only friends with you.

He wants it to be you and him against the world. He talks about doing something romantic, heroic, or extraordinary he wants to do.

He offers to get you a mp3, pager, cell phone but it works out you getting it and paying for it but he ends up useing it.

He tells you he is paying a bill for something sympathetic so you buy him a phone card, gas, or help him get a credit card.

He doesn't have an ID or driver's license. Uses check cashing places or tells you he doesn't like to use a checking account.

He sometimes breaks dates and either has a convienent excuse, or makes you feel guilty for asking him, or makes it your fault.

On-line he hasn't been around long, doesn't have a lot of posts, and uses icons or very generic photo's.

He talks about the place he has picked as his "home"; the weather, clubs,tourist sights but never mentions people in the neighborhood only after they happen. Information he can easily get on the web.

He has a host of web addresses and screen names or wants you to go off line to a seperate address.

He has a glamourous job. How many people with glamourous jobs look for love not sex on-line?

He has a cell phone that always goes to voicemail.

He keeps popping up on line when you would expect him to be working. Or sleeping. There may be a team actually talking to you.

He can reference conversations you had days before. Because he copies them. Not a bad idea for you. Married guys tend to trip themselves up.

He calls you honey or darlin, or baby. It is easier to remember pet names.




pkh's photo
Tue 01/20/09 11:30 PM

Signs A Guy Is Bad News

He moves a lot; usually around when his girlfriend runs out of money or a job.

He plays the role of the super "nice guy" kind of seems like no other guy you ever knew. Very attentive in small non-committal ways.

He will send you music, a poem, or some seemingly sentimental gift. Unknown to you usually something someone sent him or he has sent to previous girlfriends.

He starts showing up when you don't expect. Or his friends do and you have the vague feeling someone is around a lot. They are. Wolves tend to run in packs.
i think all but a couple I feel like such an idiot
He either doesn't talk about the trail of ex girlfriends or they are all defective. He doesn't have a normal relationship with his Mother.

He flirts a lot but when he finally does get around to asking you he makes it feel or sound like you asked him.

He wants to know your schedule down to the minute.

He likes you to work one or more part time jobs. Your busy so he can play.

He starts slowly but surely picking off your friends. Pitting one against the other or insinuateing things he knows will distance you from them. He makes you feel like a failure at friendship so you are only friends with you.

He wants it to be you and him against the world. He talks about doing something romantic, heroic, or extraordinary he wants to do.

He offers to get you a mp3, pager, cell phone but it works out you getting it and paying for it but he ends up useing it.

He tells you he is paying a bill for something sympathetic so you buy him a phone card, gas, or help him get a credit card.

He doesn't have an ID or driver's license. Uses check cashing places or tells you he doesn't like to use a checking account.

He sometimes breaks dates and either has a convienent excuse, or makes you feel guilty for asking him, or makes it your fault.

On-line he hasn't been around long, doesn't have a lot of posts, and uses icons or very generic photo's.

He talks about the place he has picked as his "home"; the weather, clubs,tourist sights but never mentions people in the neighborhood only after they happen. Information he can easily get on the web.

He has a host of web addresses and screen names or wants you to go off line to a seperate address.

He has a glamourous job. How many people with glamourous jobs look for love not sex on-line?

He has a cell phone that always goes to voicemail.

He keeps popping up on line when you would expect him to be working. Or sleeping. There may be a team actually talking to you.

He can reference conversations you had days before. Because he copies them. Not a bad idea for you. Married guys tend to trip themselves up.

He calls you honey or darlin, or baby. It is easier to remember pet names.





DragonFlyTat's photo
Wed 01/21/09 05:45 AM
drop him like a lead ballon

Seakolony's photo
Wed 01/21/09 05:47 AM
he's a loser

buttons's photo
Wed 01/21/09 05:53 AM
If he knew you would you feel any different? What an azz if he did i say, to do something to you to make your feelings hurt like that!!!
my guess is he didnt know it was you.. but even if he did his actions are untolerable!

Roco's photo
Wed 01/21/09 11:35 PM
..he's playing the old cat and mouse game..

roco

Roco's photo
Wed 01/21/09 11:39 PM

drop him like a lead ballon


haven't heard that expression before...lead balloon..what does it mean..

keepthehope's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:21 AM
Tell him to hit the road. He is playing you and lying.

keepthehope's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:22 AM


drop him like a lead ballon


haven't heard that expression before...lead balloon..what does it mean..


If a balloon were made of lead what do you think it would do. She should drop him that same way! I can't believe you have never heard of that before.

no photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:27 AM
Seems like your intuition is already offering the answers to what you're questioning. Sorry :(

JoeW99's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:27 AM
Edited by JoeW99 on Thu 01/22/09 12:29 AM



drop him like a lead ballon


haven't heard that expression before...lead balloon..what does it mean..


If a balloon were made of lead what do you think it would do. She should drop him that same way! I can't believe you have never heard of that before.


Can't say i have either.. for one how would you fill up a ballon made of metal? Don't see any way a metal ballon would expand under air pressure alone. A balloon is a flexible bag filled with a type of gas, such as helium, hydrogen, nitrous oxide or air. If it is already pre-formed ballon shape then not really a ballon by difinition.
( i know take my logic and jump off a high bridge!)

That being said.

Advice to the OP:

Kick him in the nut sack! That is all.

JoeW99's photo
Thu 01/22/09 12:48 AM
Damn logic killed the thread...

but, but, i did say kick him in the nuts?

I R HATZ LOGIK :(

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