I met someone here a yr. and a half ago.He lives in Kansas and I've go to see him twice.We talk everyday about another visit.He didn't like me being on here he was jealous.So i left for four months only to find out he was still here.So I decided to log on as another person and play the game.He asked for my pick right away,he im me right away,he gave me his regular email,so when I called him out he said he knew it was me.I know i'm way to trusting.Your thoughts,i can't seem th believe in him like i did

thats because you have every right to mistrust him..he wants to control you while still playing the field...hand him the ball... and tell him you're through with the game, he can't have it both ways

of course I may be a little biased...

Was it all possible that he could know it was you?

I know that but he called with his sweet talk and of course I feel for it.But I don't trust him so if you can't trust you have nothing.I'm done for the 100th time.

he said he knew but was asking to many questions about it so I don't believe it of course he says he has a witness his friend was there (right)

He didn't know it was you.. You busted him, he did what he did and will do it again... I know it sucks but he opened the door, if it were me I'd walk out and never look back...

This IS an example of a game.No games!

idk....did he come on to you a lot as the other profile??

trust is earned.......and if he loves you he WILL put forth effort to earn it

I think you should trust whatever intuition you have on this issue, and stick with it. You already know the answer for yourself.

I have a hard time believing he knew it was you. When he says that he knew, I feel he was just trying to cover his butt!

I know it in my heart your right

yeah I've been a sucker for sweet talk because I WANT to believe it..but like you said the trust just isn't there and you need that to make a relationship survive..

thank you all and I do know,it's the letting go but I will I'm a strong woman.Thanks for all your feedback

I've seen some of my friends experience the exact same thing... It never worked out for the better..

thanks and I deserve better.

Trust your Gut, it's usually right! Now what was your first thought????? hu hu hu?

Just that whole game and him being on here and you not obviously trusting him in the first place thing just SCREAMS RE-DO!! Start over. The guy has been on here all along but you weren't supposed to be and now that you came back under a new persona and he hits on you thinking you are new and he back pedddles.....I'M EXHAUSTER reading it and responding. This is bull!!! He knew nothing and he was caught foolin' around. Ditch and pitch. Yes, even with the time invested. This is garbage and you can make it stink just as long as you'd like. So I know you will ignore me.

Thank you and I do agree,I guess I'm so used to the a-holes I know i deserve better.I told him we were done again an hour ago,so now i'll just ignore his calls

pam, you so don't deserve that kind of behaviour. move on and save yourself the trouble of having to do it later...

hi sunshine have missed you.Thanks Kevin why I always pick the bad boys I'll never know