Im just wondering why i can find a desent man that likes me for me not just what he thanks he can get?

I thanks I do ok

Welcome

wish I could help but I think a lot of people have that problem

hence why they make mingle2...with all of its name changes

Guy's around your age are looking for all the sex they can get???? You will just have to weed thru them until you find one that make's you happy!!!!!

Welcome and have fun

Not sure of the question of "why"...but I will say that most guy's are too selfish for anyone to consider. These guy's are only interested in "what can you do for me"!

Don't misunderstand me...there are a few good guy's...you just have to be able to separate the two types!

Good luck in your future adventures in romance, and hope all works well for you.

JMO

guys are always looking for sex, it's what else we're looking for or not looking for that is more important. Add photo with a smile and do a little spell check, profile will do well for you... Welcome to M2

Oh boy, here we go.

It's a numbers game. Be thankful that we have the internet to meet people outside of where we live. Be patient and someone will come along in due time.

FYI, you need to do a spell check on your profile. You have quite a few errors.

thanks for the comment's i will check the profile...

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You need to be respect yourself before you have a decent respectable man.

I'm not sure if this is a nice guy thread, but it smells like one. Spend more time and energy describing yourself and what you want, and silently weed through the losers. Spell and smell check your writings too. This one stinks, to be honest but you're probably new at this and I have confidence you'll figure it out.

well i'm just being honest i am a red neck woman and i love to get muddy four wheeling and all but thanks ill make sure i lie like alot of people do next time

Well, even revisiting your profile, you seem miserable, painfully miserable. It'll pass.

Remember you asked to have your profile rated. What follows is an opinion given to benifit you.

Reading your profile I wonder what you bring to the dating site and relationships in general? Or parenting? You want a decent man to step in but it sounds like you want to party and go traveling,camping, and fishing for your own pleasure.

You make no mention of three kids. Or what you do to be self employed. leaveing out important details like that people are going to assume the worst.

The profile makes no mention how you might help him accomlish his dreams.

It is really kind of insulting to a decent guy to think all he wants is what he can get. Evidently you find sex approriate at some point too if you have three kids so don't pretend that sex is some how a crime.

With a scowling photo it is hardly an engageing invitation. Really sad because you are a pretty girl and a smile is just common courtesy when you are introduceing yourself.

It is not a crime if English is not your first language but text is very difficult to read so you might want to ask someone for help.

Try to be hopeful here at Mingle. A positive attitude will encourage the nicer guys to come forward after they see you chatting in the forums. Good Luck.

well thank you for your honest approach yes i have three kids and i am new to this after nine years,so with out comments i would never learn as far as my kids are concered i spend alot of time with them but their dad has them on the weekends and i take my kids camping with me but i am very garded when it comes to my babies they are my world and i would not even introduce my children to anyone with out knowing that person for quite some time because i don't wan't people in and out of my children's life confuseing them yes,i agree with you on a hole lot of other things and thank you for your rateing and honesty .

I think you're perfectly fine. Good that you don't have the ever-present revolving door like alot of girls have. You seem like you'd be fun to do a girls-weekend-out camping with the yung'ns with. I like camping also but I need a guy to set everything up first.

Much improved on your profile, at least in terms of pictures. I can hardly wait to see how it'll be in a month or 3.

Thank you so much for all of the help im tring and I promise im a good hearted person I just can't always find the right words butt thank you guys and weman for all your help and may yall find all you looking for as well

Your profile is fine. I suggest the second pic as your main one. It's really good.