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Topic: Do you beleive
Stephycats's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:44 PM
Do yall beleive in giving someone a second chance?

TheShadow's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:44 PM
it depends onthe sitation

TheShadow's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:45 PM
ger try this again it depends on the situation lol

Stephycats's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:46 PM
Well say you are with someone and they are possesive and such, but they
agree to go to anger management so you give them a second chance.

songbirrd's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:47 PM
99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999999% of the time
yes I'm a verry forgiving person. It's gotten me in trouble before but I
believe everyone makes mistakes and as long as we try to fix them we're
in the right.:heart: flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:48 PM
Yeah I can say I would I do most of the time it's called live an learn

Stephycats's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:56 PM
Thanks for the advice. Im giving my now again Fiancee another chance. I
think he deserves it. And I love him.

mtironroses's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:56 PM
flowerforyou of course............ mistakes are made, and forgivness
is the honorable thing.........(and your inner self will feel
better):heart:

Kens_Barbie's photo
Sun 04/22/07 11:57 PM
Depends on what he did...huh

Stephycats's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:00 AM
Kens Barbie what he did wasnt anything to bad. He was possesive and he
accidently hurt my wrist when he was upset. But we talked and he agreed
to go to anger management I truly beleive the wrist thing was an
accident.

PetiteKitten's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:05 AM
Yes, for me it depends on what they did....

Stephycats's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:08 AM
Well that is what he did.

Kens_Barbie's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:09 AM
Well, Stephy...speaking from experience, if it happens once it will
happen again and will get worse...JMO...So, for something like that, no
way I would forgive him, too risky! noway

Stephycats's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:12 AM
I have been in a bad relationship before. But this I really think was an
accident and he is going to see a therapist and go to anger management.
I want to give him the benefit of the doubt.

Kens_Barbie's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:15 AM
Well, you'll be in my prayers, Stephy! I do hope it works out for the
best for you flowerforyou

Kens_Barbie's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:16 AM
Just be careful!

Stephycats's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:16 AM
Thanks and I will be sure you let everyone know how it goes cause yall
are my online family

no photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:19 AM
second chance if he will show he regrets what he did, I dont want to
spoil a guy again, it gets me into a lot of trouble :angry:

you will be good step :wink:

pms64's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:20 AM
Steph,
Sorry, but I have been there and done that, only I was married
to him, twice actually. And I can say from experience, once an abuser,
always an abuser. It always starts out small with him telling you
whatever it takes, and that he will never do it again.
BUT, also from experience, you will never know for yourself or believe
anyone else til it has happened to you. Believe me or not, but I learned
it the hard way. When I told him he was not allowed to touch me like
that ever again, he turned to our kids, and was abusive to them. That's
when I left for good and never looked back. Sorry, I know it's not what
you wanted to hear, just telling the truth from my story.
I hope your story turns out better, and with a happy ending.
And I wish for you all the best.
Good Luck, in this and in all you do.
PMS
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Kens_Barbie's photo
Mon 04/23/07 12:22 AM
Thanks, PMS...exactly!!! Do it once, you'll do it again...and get better
at doing it every time :angry: mad explode

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