I admit I don't understand men. The last guy I dated asked about all my exes. Constantly! How often were we "friendly" Questions regarding measurements. How was he compared to me. Even after several months of dating. That is private and none of his business. What is going on? Is he just insecure-or what? What do I say the next time a guy asks me something like that? I need something sharp to drive the point home. The past is the past. Leave it there. I shouldn't have to lie or bad mouth an ex to make another guy feel like a man. I don't care about his exes. Their gone-and he's with me. That's it.

I hear ya. At least you don't have to explain about 4 exes.

Sympathy....Comparisons ...how damaged you me be or feel from ur last relationship ....am I the only one going to answer this honestly lol

Why are there two threads with the exact same title AND question??

They're looking for a different answer.