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Topic: Delima..
Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:39 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick?

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 01/19/09 08:40 PM
you can always get another job....

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 01/19/09 08:41 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? I would pick the career

Drago01 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1311	Mon 01/19/09 08:43 PM
Establish yourself then your family. I know it doesnt always work that way but if you had a choice. My two-cents.

RkTechhead Joined Wed 05/28/08 Posts: 3	Mon 01/19/09 08:44 PM
Why can't you maintain the relationship until your career path allows for the required conditions for marriage?

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 01/19/09 08:44 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy......

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:46 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door

GlamorousLyly Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 942	Mon 01/19/09 08:46 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? you can have both . you baby can wait if she loves you

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:48 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? I would pick the career what if you are in love?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 01/19/09 08:48 PM
That's why it's better to pursue the career first before getting into a relationship. It really balls down to the type of career it is. If the career is a traveling type, then yes I would have to make that choice of marriage or career. I would choose marriage in this case. But if it's a career where you are not traveling...or don't have to travel, I wouldn't see why pursuing a career and marrying can't happen.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 01/19/09 08:48 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door Yeah. So can I have it?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 01/19/09 08:49 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? I would pick the career He doesn't love me after all.

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:50 PM
Why can't you maintain the relationship until your career path allows for the required conditions for marriage? one would hope but that's not an option!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 01/19/09 08:50 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? I would pick the career what if you are in love? still career

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 01/19/09 08:51 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? I would pick the career He doesn't love me after all. yes i do

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:51 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door Yeah. So can I have it? only if you can guess what's behind it

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 01/19/09 08:52 PM
Who said you cant do both................a job is a job and even a career can be reinvented but love is never a guarantee and that is priceless...............its up to you do you want to be successful and be alone will your career matter then?

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:52 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? you can have both . you baby can wait if she loves you not an option! it's either/or

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 01/19/09 08:54 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? I would pick the career He doesn't love me after all. yes i do Okay. Good.

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:55 PM
Who said you cant do both................a job is a job and even a career can be reinvented but love is never a guarantee and that is priceless...............its up to you do you want to be successful and be alone will your career matter then? so you pick marriage first?