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ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 01/19/09 08:55 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door Yeah. So can I have it? only if you can guess what's behind it Giant flying skulls that are on fire?

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 08:57 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door Yeah. So can I have it? only if you can guess what's behind it Giant flying skulls that are on fire? was that an old video game? Doom!???

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 01/19/09 09:00 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Mon 01/19/09 09:02 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door Yeah. So can I have it? only if you can guess what's behind it Giant flying skulls that are on fire? was that an old video game? Doom!??? Doom was super awesome!! So it is?

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:05 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income?

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:07 PM
I'd like what's behind door number three, Shaggy...... That's the secret door Yeah. So can I have it? only if you can guess what's behind it Giant flying skulls that are on fire? was that an old video game? Doom!??? Doom was super awesome!! So it is? I am affraid no skulls behind the secret door

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Mon 01/19/09 09:07 PM
was a pretty good song

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:14 PM
behind door # 3, there is no door # 3 so answer the Q in the OP

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 01/19/09 09:15 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? That's why I said "if". Ha Ha! There are jobs out there that can work on one income. The military as well. I come from a military family. It all balls down to budgeting and making things stretch. You'd be surprised.

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 01/19/09 09:21 PM
Who said you cant do both................a job is a job and even a career can be reinvented but love is never a guarantee and that is priceless...............its up to you do you want to be successful and be alone will your career matter then? so you pick marriage first?

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:22 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? That's why I said "if". Ha Ha! There are jobs out there that can work on one income. The military as well. I come from a military family. It all balls down to budgeting and making things stretch. You'd be surprised. My ex doesn't have the phrase "streching budget" in her dictionary

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 01/19/09 09:24 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? Isnt it why people seek higher education............i think that you can have one income if the person (man or woman) has gotten a degree meaning masters or phd.................then its much easier for that to happen.......

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:28 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? Isnt it why people seek higher education............i think that you can have one income if the person (man or woman) has gotten a degree meaning masters or phd.................then its much easier for that to happen....... how many of us have PhDs, I wish I did...I would want to

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 01/19/09 09:35 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? Isnt it why people seek higher education............i think that you can have one income if the person (man or woman) has gotten a degree meaning masters or phd.................then its much easier for that to happen....... how many of us have PhDs, I wish I did...I would want to Im about to get my masters and do my PHD..........by the way I know a lot of people who have MASTERS AND PHD'S................my mom and dad for one and my mother chose to stay home with us...........

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:38 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? Isnt it why people seek higher education............i think that you can have one income if the person (man or woman) has gotten a degree meaning masters or phd.................then its much easier for that to happen....... how many of us have PhDs, I wish I did...I would want to Im about to get my masters and do my PHD..........by the way I know a lot of people who have MASTERS AND PHD'S................my mom and dad for one and my mother chose to stay home with us........... I hope I get there myself...then....I will be Dr. Shagwell

Tanzkity Joined Wed 04/30/08 Posts: 3743	Mon 01/19/09 09:40 PM
It also goes for who can provide in life. If my man can provide for me, I can hold out on my job (depending what it may be). I wouldn't want there to be a struggle financially during the marriage if my man can't provide for the both of us. Especially if kids pop up. how can you survive on one income? Isnt it why people seek higher education............i think that you can have one income if the person (man or woman) has gotten a degree meaning masters or phd.................then its much easier for that to happen....... how many of us have PhDs, I wish I did...I would want to Im about to get my masters and do my PHD..........by the way I know a lot of people who have MASTERS AND PHD'S................my mom and dad for one and my mother chose to stay home with us........... I hope I get there myself...then....I will be Dr. Shagwell woot woot woot woot.............

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Mon 01/19/09 09:42 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? And the reason you can't do both is?

Shagwell Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1323	Mon 01/19/09 09:50 PM
hypothetically speaking, you are in a relationship (hypothetical part ) and you want to get married but you can't because you are pursuing a career, so you have to pick one...which one would you pick? And the reason you can't do both is? it wasnt an option, either/or type!