Prettttty grim.

...very grim

10 times as grim here in ABQ.
I guess it all depends what you are after .

Ten times as grime here in Albuquerque????
I guess its what we make it to be.
I am finding some, fake, ones, forsure. Maybe meeting the old fashioned way, is the best way after all. That way, you know that who you are seeing, is the actual person, that wants to get to know you. Some, try to fool you with someone elses photo, not to mention all the details that follow from there.
What happened to honesty and being real????
Haven't tried gearing my search to Santa Fe.
Not very enthusiastic now.

It is true that there are posers out there that lead people on , or are not genuine . I am too optimistic to give up . After all, what is the alternative ?

It is very easy to be negative , a positive attitude helps in any situation .
The worst thing for me is being mis understood .

At my stage in life , my goal is to find a real relationship with a worthy partner .
I know she is out there , and just as eager and positive , with a healthy self esteem , and hopefully drama free .

Maybe I am a dreamer . so be it .
The best to all of you in your quest .In my previuos post I was trying to humorous , and I hope people saw it that way . It is sometimes an impossible task to relate tone or inflection in a quick e mail .
I hope By writing this new post I have cleared that error up .
I have met an amazing array of wonderful people ,with talents ,skills , and knowledge .
There is hope for all of us in our search ....our quest our da da da destiny .
Fate awaits , and no one knows what is around the next bend .

Best of luck in all of our jouneys !!

Well said bigtom 1956.

I think its very grim in Albuquerque....

New Mexico is great!!! Right, its all about where you stand in relation to God.

it's all about the god thing, and keeping off the opiates, stay away from the opiates.