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Topic: Age - why does it matter?
alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:25 PM
It's obviously not physical 'cause we see lotsa 20 y/o peeps on here who think a "push-up" is ice cream! A single member of this youngest generation has enough curves for five people! As a man, I see more women on here in their 40s with more heat than those in their early 20s. If anyone should have a prejudice, it's us older folks before obesity became "normal."

Just wondering - why is someone too old? Well, obviously, within limits 'cause some people can't wait to be "old" and some are "old" while they're still youthful! But really it can't be just physical so it must be something else - what is it? Old Guy.

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:25 PM
Age matters if you're a wine or a cheese.

bgeorge's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:27 PM
it doesn't...

chickayoshi's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:32 PM
It matters if you show it. But it all depends on the taste of a person's preference.

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:32 PM
Got meohwell Old Ladybigsmile

FreeToB's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:33 PM
Edited by FreeToB on Sun 01/18/09 07:34 PM
I don't date young ladies anymore. While I can't say "all", I can say that most young people cannot hold an intelligent conversation because they just havn't lived long enough. Besides. you have to train em...and I like a woman who knows what she likes and aint shy about saying it.

Too old. hmmmm. I guess GROWING old with someone would be nice but I cant see myself hanging with a very much older woman. Wow..that does sound a bit predjudiced. Guess I'll think on it some more.

alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:33 PM

Got meohwell Old Ladybigsmile


Naw, checked your profile a coupla times. You ain't no old lady!

galendgirl's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:34 PM
'old' is a state of mind...

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Sun 01/18/09 07:34 PM
I don't think it's the age itself that makes the difference but the experience you get with age, you don't see life in the same eye when your 50 compare to 20.

Most people and I emphasize most get experience with age. devil

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:34 PM
You are only as old as you let yourself feel drinker

Krimsa's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:35 PM
Edited by Krimsa on Sun 01/18/09 07:37 PM

It's obviously not physical 'cause we see lotsa 20 y/o peeps on here who think a "push-up" is ice cream! A single member of this youngest generation has enough curves for five people! As a man, I see more women on here in their 40s with more heat than those in their early 20s. If anyone should have a prejudice, it's us older folks before obesity became "normal."

Just wondering - why is someone too old? Well, obviously, within limits 'cause some people can't wait to be "old" and some are "old" while they're still youthful! But really it can't be just physical so it must be something else - what is it? Old Guy.


Well obviously there are legal concerns of course and NO ONE needs THAT on their record. I’m assuming you are in compliance and all for the state in which you currently reside.

Basically I have run the gamut. I have had men nearly half my age and I’ve also dated men in their late 50s. Everything in between also. It really depends on the person, their life experience and what they have chosen to take away from said experiences. I’ve dated younger men that were quite reserved and somber. I’ve dated men older than me that were highly immature.

I can tell you it is based entirely on the individual. Viva la differance is all I can really say about it.

noblenan's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:35 PM
It does...age is an attitude, idealization, behavior. Age can be real or percieved. Age can be everything or it can be nothing. It's our choice. We can control what other people think. IMO


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no photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:36 PM

It's obviously not physical 'cause we see lotsa 20 y/o peeps on here who think a "push-up" is ice cream! A single member of this youngest generation has enough curves for five people! As a man, I see more women on here in their 40s with more heat than those in their early 20s. If anyone should have a prejudice, it's us older folks before obesity became "normal."

Just wondering - why is someone too old? Well, obviously, within limits 'cause some people can't wait to be "old" and some are "old" while they're still youthful! But really it can't be just physical so it must be something else - what is it? Old Guy.



Here we go ,,,AGAIN

alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:36 PM

I don't date young ladies anymore. While I can't say "all", I can say that most young people cannot hold an intelligent conversation because they just havn't lived long enough. Besides. you have to train em...and I like a woman who knows what she likes and aint shy about saying it.

Too old. hmmmm. I guess GROWING old with someone would be nice but I cant see myself hanging with a very much older woman. Wow..that does sound a bit predjudiced. Guess I'll think on it some more.


Doesn't sound prejudiced. Aging with someone is different from "growing old" with someone.

FreeToB's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:37 PM


I don't date young ladies anymore. While I can't say "all", I can say that most young people cannot hold an intelligent conversation because they just havn't lived long enough. Besides. you have to train em...and I like a woman who knows what she likes and aint shy about saying it.

Too old. hmmmm. I guess GROWING old with someone would be nice but I cant see myself hanging with a very much older woman. Wow..that does sound a bit predjudiced. Guess I'll think on it some more.


Doesn't sound prejudiced. Aging with someone is different from "growing old" with someone.


haha I'm already "aged", just not OLD yet.


adj4u's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:38 PM
it is not age that matters it is maturity

when one says age is an issue thet have not matured enough to know the difference yet


:wink: laugh

mssilverfox's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:39 PM

it is not age that matters it is maturity

when one says age is an issue thet have not matured enough to know the difference yet


:wink: laugh




How true. I have met many young men that are very mature and older ones that will never mature..

rlynne's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:39 PM

Age matters if you're a wine or a cheese.



it matters only in reference to maturity levels..... unless you are to be consumed once and forgotten...

I don't know how well it would work out at least initially trying to have an intimate relationship with someone who could better relate to my father, simply because of age...I would be thinking at least half the time, wow this guy could be my fathers friend or worse, my father...and thats wrong

as for the obesity of youth...lifestyles change throughout generations...the younger ones have more sedentary lifestyles, the concept of getting out and walking to your friends house is null and void when you have at least one car or the phone or the internet to be able to communicate..why get up? why go and live life when you can watch it on High Def t.v.


alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:41 PM


It's obviously not physical 'cause we see lotsa 20 y/o peeps on here who think a "push-up" is ice cream! A single member of this youngest generation has enough curves for five people! As a man, I see more women on here in their 40s with more heat than those in their early 20s. If anyone should have a prejudice, it's us older folks before obesity became "normal."

Just wondering - why is someone too old? Well, obviously, within limits 'cause some people can't wait to be "old" and some are "old" while they're still youthful! But really it can't be just physical so it must be something else - what is it? Old Guy.



Here we go ,,,AGAIN

Yeah, true, again, but I think it's a continuous reminder. Kinda like the self-deprecating profiles. Why do people seem so ashamed to brag on themselves? There are obviously great people on here we meet, but you can't tell from the profiles. We all should learn to brag more!
I bet if I went to your profile now, there'd be none of the best stuff about you that you'd like people to know. Bet?

AndyBgood's photo
Sun 01/18/09 07:41 PM
I was 31 with a nineteen year old GF for a while.
At 37 I was involved with another 19 year old.

I tend to get along better with younger women. Oddly my last GF was 8 years older than me so with me it is not about age. it is about compatibility.

Not all younger women are scared of older guys.

I love not looking my age some times!!!

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