do you think its ok to keep things from a girl friend that she does not need to know like your sex life before her or if you love her do you tell her everything. my last girlfriend whould ask me and i would tell her, then ask me if i liked it (what the FU**)....well what the hell would you think...

if she asks. be honest. but be prepared for her not to like what she's hearing. i always hate the "how many people have you been with" discussion. it's always a pain in the a*s. but don't lie about it. cause eventually the truth will come out!

I really wouldn't want to know.

but why would a girl ask if its going to piss her off .... but to asked me if i liked it on top of that was what got to me. WELL YA ITS WHY I DID IT why else do any of us do it. evolution gave us the orgasim because humans would not have sex if it did not feel good. do we stroke our legs or fingers come on now

It's none of the new person's business what went on prior. Only thing that matter's, is the here and now.

I've discovered that I shouldn't ask a question that I don't really want to know the answer to.

As long as you are disease free I see no reason to volunteer such information, but if she asks then withholding is a lie of omission.


It shouldn't matter if you REALLY LOVE each other. We can't change our past...

They would ask because they want to know the truth whether it pisses them off or not.

They would ask because they want to know the truth whether it pisses them off or not.


exactly

I would say there is nothing worse than me knowing how many people someone was with. Worse yet is how was it with each one of them. I will just start obsessing about it, wondering whether I am good enough. With women, it seems to be different though. They seem to like guys with quite a resume of women.

hell no dont tell them! If they need to know they are trippin and just tell them im not gonna tell you about my past like that. now if they asked for generalalties then i would answer, but no details thats just wrong for someone to ask that. Now if they where mature and honest maybe, but i think its still a bad idea to bite into that period!

A resume? You are wrong, is all I will say.

The past is the past, right? Or, is it? There is no point in comparing it's relevancy to the present unless it will somehow improve your current relationship. And since I do not know her motives for asking you such questions, I can not give you the answer you are seeking. All I can really say is that we all learn from history. Perhaps she was trying to learn from yours.

I think it is more about STD's.

Not from my experience. I am 29, and when I tell them a fairly low number, they generally think it is weird. Like why hasn't this guy been getting any?

They would ask because they want to know the truth whether it pisses them off or not.


exactly


but why the hell would you want to know... is it fire power for an agrument.. im young but i see how (some) women will NEVER drop something no matter how small and use it time and time again

Haha. This reminds me of the movie "Clerks".


Dante Hicks: You said you only had sex with three different guys; you never mentioned him!
Veronica Loughran: Because I never HAD sex with him.
Dante Hicks: You sucked his ****!
Veronica Loughran: We went out a few times. We never had sex but we fooled around.
Dante Hicks: Oh my God, WHY did you tell me you only had sex with three different guys?
Veronica Loughran: Because I DID only have sex with three different guys; that doesn't mean I didn't just go with people.
Dante Hicks: Oh my God, I feel so nauseous!
Veronica Loughran: I'm sorry, Dante, I thought you understood!
Dante Hicks: I did understand! I understood that you had sex with three different guys and that's all you said!
Veronica Loughran: Please calm down.
Dante Hicks: How many?
Veronica Loughran: Dante...
Dante Hicks: How many ****s have you sucked?
Veronica Loughran: Let it go!
Dante Hicks: How many?
Veronica Loughran: All right, shut up a second and I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't freak out like this when you told me how many girls you ****ed!
Dante Hicks: This is different, this is important. How many?
[long pause as customer buys something]
Dante Hicks: Well?
Veronica Loughran: Something like... 36.
Dante Hicks: What? Something like 36?
Veronica Loughran: Lower your voice.
Dante Hicks: Wait, what is that anyway, something like 36? Does that INCLUDE me?
Veronica Loughran: Ummm... 37.
Dante Hicks: I'm 37?

STD'S has nothing to do with it! The highest level of STD'S is among the young. Besides you can be a safe and been around.

this kinda reminds me of a comment my ex made that for some reason rubbed me the wrong way. She said "I have never had a problem pleasing a man" That just gets me thinking way too much. lol

Your private life is none of anybody's business, that all there is to that. All that I want to know, is about "us". If I were going to ask, it would be "what are you going to do to me?".