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Topic: Would you date..
Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:40 PM
any one guy / girl with any kind of disorder ( OCD ) or other type of disorder.

If so why ... if not why not.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:42 PM

any one guy / girl with any kind of disorder ( OCD ) or other type of disorder.

If so why ... if not why not.
:smile: It would depend on what disorder that is:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:42 PM
It would depend on the disorder & to what degree, my ex had been dealing with depression & such & I'm not sure I can deal with that again.

ledi180's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:43 PM
I'm with the guys - depends on what it is.

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:43 PM
I dated someone with bipolar disorder once. Never again.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:44 PM
It would depend what the disorder is.

Totage's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:44 PM

any one guy / girl with any kind of disorder ( OCD ) or other type of disorder.

If so why ... if not why not.


Depends on the disorder and severity.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:45 PM
Okay .. say it's OCD.. say this person is extremely clean in some ways. So would you go out with a person who is rather too clean. ???????

ledi180's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:47 PM
OCD has varying degrees too. If it took them two hours to get out of the house and they had numerous rituals? Probably not. If they have to wash their hands 3 times before they brush their teeth? I can deal with that.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:51 PM
What if it's less of a degree of OCD, however the person get's stressed and tough time sleeping at times. Would this bother you, but this person always wash's there hands.

ledi180's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:52 PM
Lots of folks have trouble sleeping and it has nothing to do with OCD :smile:

I'd likely give it a try if I like the fella flowerforyou

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Sat 01/17/09 05:55 PM
well it depends if it was real or not. if it was real and not some "pity me sham" i would try and help them. But they would have to be willing to get help first!

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Sat 01/17/09 05:57 PM
Every damned one of them...grumble

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sat 01/17/09 05:58 PM
everyone says it depends on the disorder.

i say... the severity.

so yeah i concur.

it depends lol

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:04 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Sat 01/17/09 06:07 PM

well it depends if it was real or not. if it was real and not some "pity me sham" i would try and help them. But they would have to be willing to get help first!


Say that person has gotten help in the pass but due to health care change etc.. can't no longer see a doctor but tires there damnest to live with and deal with whatever disorder it maybe.


Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:06 PM


well it depends if it was real or not. if it was real and not some "pity me sham" i would try and help them. But they would have to be willing to get help first!


Say that person has gotten help in the pass but due to health care change etc.. can't no longer see a doctor but tires there damnest to live with and deal with whatever disorder it maybe.




thats no excuse. every state offers state mandated insurance. california its medical.

in arizona its ahcccs.

its everywhere. there is always a way to get help. there are even dr's out there that do pro bono work for the mental health sector.

so if you have an illness and you've stopped taking your meds... and hve not exhausted all avenues of help... then thats just too bad.

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Sat 01/17/09 06:07 PM
We all are bundles of neurosis anyway, so why not? Of course it depends on the severity of the disorder.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:08 PM



well it depends if it was real or not. if it was real and not some "pity me sham" i would try and help them. But they would have to be willing to get help first!


Say that person has gotten help in the pass but due to health care change etc.. can't no longer see a doctor but tires there damnest to live with and deal with whatever disorder it maybe.




thats no excuse. every state offers state mandated insurance. california its medical.

in arizona its ahcccs.

its everywhere. there is always a way to get help. there are even dr's out there that do pro bono work for the mental health sector.

so if you have an illness and you've stopped taking your meds... and hve not exhausted all avenues of help... then thats just too bad.


What if that person can't get medical .

Also what if you didn't know they had any disorder because they hide it so well.

ledi180's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:13 PM
You're changing of the question is confusing me now. Would I date someone, that had a disorder I had no idea about? Well hell, if I didn't know, then ummmm???

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:13 PM




well it depends if it was real or not. if it was real and not some "pity me sham" i would try and help them. But they would have to be willing to get help first!


Say that person has gotten help in the pass but due to health care change etc.. can't no longer see a doctor but tires there damnest to live with and deal with whatever disorder it maybe.




thats no excuse. every state offers state mandated insurance. california its medical.

in arizona its ahcccs.

its everywhere. there is always a way to get help. there are even dr's out there that do pro bono work for the mental health sector.

so if you have an illness and you've stopped taking your meds... and hve not exhausted all avenues of help... then thats just too bad.


What if that person can't get medical .

Also what if you didn't know they had any disorder because they hide it so well.


hiding a disorder is decieving. if we are just starting to date... its none of my business but if we really started spending time and he still didn't tell me... then thats just lying and liars burn.

no good comes from hiding the truth.

oh.. and seriously. its a load if someone says "i can't get help".

you can always get help.

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