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Topic: Would you date..
breathless1's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:14 PM
That's a tricky question, for sure. ohwell

I've been there, done that, married to it for several years. ohwell

It really does depend upon the correctly diagnosed condition, the severity, and their abilities (financial or self-willingness) to seek help with it.

Again, tricky question and can only be answered individually for each person - NOT as a whole community. flowerforyou

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:17 PM





well it depends if it was real or not. if it was real and not some "pity me sham" i would try and help them. But they would have to be willing to get help first!


Say that person has gotten help in the pass but due to health care change etc.. can't no longer see a doctor but tires there damnest to live with and deal with whatever disorder it maybe.




thats no excuse. every state offers state mandated insurance. california its medical.

in arizona its ahcccs.

its everywhere. there is always a way to get help. there are even dr's out there that do pro bono work for the mental health sector.

so if you have an illness and you've stopped taking your meds... and hve not exhausted all avenues of help... then thats just too bad.


What if that person can't get medical .

Also what if you didn't know they had any disorder because they hide it so well.


hiding a disorder is decieving. if we are just starting to date... its none of my business but if we really started spending time and he still didn't tell me... then thats just lying and liars burn.

no good comes from hiding the truth.

oh.. and seriously. its a load if someone says "i can't get help".

you can always get help.




Not every body knows where to get the help those, so would you hold that againest them if they didn't know where else to turn.

Let's say there not hiding it from you would you be rude towards them after they told you what ever type of disorder that person has. ?

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:18 PM

That's a tricky question, for sure. ohwell

I've been there, done that, married to it for several years. ohwell

It really does depend upon the correctly diagnosed condition, the severity, and their abilities (financial or self-willingness) to seek help with it.

Again, tricky question and can only be answered individually for each person - NOT as a whole community. flowerforyou


So if that person didn't have as severity of a disorder as some may think.. would you still date that person.

no photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:21 PM

any one guy / girl with any kind of disorder ( OCD ) or other type of disorder.

If so why ... if not why not.
It ALL DEPENDS on if "THEY" know, and take care of it ...like taking their meds and letting me know that up front..
AND,,if they don't like their self,,,I couldn't like themflowerforyou either..
SOME people live everyday not liking who they are, and NO ONE CAN "EVER" CHANGE THAT!
ONLY THEM...so to not be good with them selves is to not find happiness in another..:smile:

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/17/09 06:42 PM


any one guy / girl with any kind of disorder ( OCD ) or other type of disorder.

If so why ... if not why not.
It ALL DEPENDS on if "THEY" know, and take care of it ...like taking their meds and letting me know that up front..
AND,,if they don't like their self,,,I couldn't like themflowerforyou either..
SOME people live everyday not liking who they are, and NO ONE CAN "EVER" CHANGE THAT!
ONLY THEM...so to not be good with them selves is to not find happiness in another..:smile:


Good points.

So as long as they took care of them selfs and all every body would be alright ?.


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