Just curious, DO you like big or small women and why? I use to be pretty
big 280 pounds and have lost over 60 pounds in the last 6 months and
looking to loose another 70 pounds in the next year. I did this all on
weight watchers and a lot of determination. It is funny as some men said
they liked me bigger. I am doing this mainley for my health but the
looks are helping me some also lol. Just curious is all. Thanks

Congrats Shagna...I lost 125 pounds so far...but I was very ill. I have
found that I had more dates when I was heavier, but then again, I really
never go anywhere. Just curious..do guys ask you out more now that you
are thinner?

well it depends on how you look at it weight should nt be an issue at
all it matters on the inside ok i like all different shape and sizes ok
i love women for they are

unsure,
I dont get out a lot as I have 2 teen daughter and I work a lot in the
mental health field with adolescents. I am not a huge social butter fly
so I dont get out to meet people so I am not asked out a lot. I get
online offers but have not really found anyone I am intrested in, My
daughter tell me when we are out and about, about all the men checking
me out but I am not asked out a lot as I dont put myself in that
position to be asked out. I wish I did. I do get a lot more complements
and stares just waiting for people to ask me out more lol

one thing that is 100 pecent better is the sex though, since I lost all
this weight I am not as self consious and I have tons of energy and just
want to have sex all night long hahaha!!

thats probly why all the guys are looking at you lol

I dont sit with a sign on my head adverstising this! I think peoples
over all attitudes are better when they are happy with themselves and
that is what attracts men~ I think lol

shoot,i'll go with you,you look hot to me

I think you are right, if you feel better about yourself...it shows. If
you have more confidence in yourself..people do notice! Oh I have to
agree on the sex part..it is better, but don't you think its because you
have more confidence in yourself? I know I think that...I don't mind if
the lights are on or if its daytime..haha!
I do get asked out but I usually say NO...I have one now but for a few
reasons, I won't go :) My health just needs to improve..so thats my main
focus

Thank you DWA! Unsure, I was in a real bad marriage for 10 years and
took a year and a half to be single after I left him as I am not into
the rebound scene, I have had a "friend" for about 8 months and that is
all I want with this one man but I think I am wanting more companionship
with someone now, nothing serious but more then just a "friend" I know I
dont want it with him but I am open to date others now, I just dont know
how to meet people as I was always married so I never learned how to
really meet people. I am not to comfortable with having sex with the
lights on YET but nakes it all good, I dont keep the t-shirt on
anymore!! lol

Well congrats on the weight loss...I am sure all of that will come in
due time!! :)

Boy ShagnaC -- can I relate to your comment about your daughter telling
you about all the guys checking you out, but not getting asked out.

What's with that, all my girlfriends and male friends tell me the same
thing.. but here I sit. Hence, the reason for trying to meet someone
on-line.

Can't seem to meet anyone the good ole fashioned way. What's up with
that eh. Should we find the answer we should patented it could make us
a bundle.

By the way congrat's on the weigh lose...you go girl.

you look pretty good in the face now so it's up to you what you want.

let me see a full length photo of you then.

i like girls of all sizes, big, skinny or inbetweeny and i think that
they are all sexy.

i saw your profile shana and i really liked the 2nd picture showing your
profile from your right side, you look good.

I thought you meant breast size. I like them any size accept not like
honey melons. Some of the Playboy models have then way too big.

But since that's not what your talking about I have to be honest with
ya, I like them petit and slim. That's just my peference. But then again
who knows, I could just as easily fall for a BBW too.

Ghoestrecon

I prefer a full figured lady. They have a better shape and great curves

I have no conscious preference for large or small women. I do however
like to be active and the kind of person that I am attracted to must be
able to participate in some of the same activities I like. This would
mean that I would be mainly interested in an atletic build. Now I have
seen some women, and men who look overweight, but they could leave me
behind in their dust, without even blinking, so looks and size alone are
not indicative of a persons health or stamina.
I guess the bottom line is to meet all sizes and types of potential
mates and find that person that "FITS" the profile that you are looking
for. I have never turned down an invite for coffee, or a date with
someone based on their size. Compatabilty will show up after getting to
know them longer. So hang in there, and lose more weight if it makes you
feel better, but only do it for the most important person, YOURSELF. Use
the proper body language to make someone that is looking at you, want to
talk with you and the rest is just being yourself. For instance, how
about posting a new picture of yourself, where your hair isn't hiding
part of your face? It conveys that you are shy and withdrawn in your
picture. If you are proud of your new figure then show it off with a
new pic and hold your head high, because losing that weight it isn't
something that just everyone could do. Have fun and good luck finding a
fellow in your area.