I have no conscious preference for large or small women. I do however
like to be active and the kind of person that I am attracted to must be
able to participate in some of the same activities I like. This would
mean that I would be mainly interested in an atletic build. Now I have
seen some women, and men who look overweight, but they could leave me
behind in their dust, without even blinking, so looks and size alone are
not indicative of a persons health or stamina.
I guess the bottom line is to meet all sizes and types of potential
mates and find that person that "FITS" the profile that you are looking
for. I have never turned down an invite for coffee, or a date with
someone based on their size. Compatabilty will show up after getting to
know them longer. So hang in there, and lose more weight if it makes you
feel better, but only do it for the most important person, YOURSELF. Use
the proper body language to make someone that is looking at you, want to
talk with you and the rest is just being yourself. For instance, how
about posting a new picture of yourself, where your hair isn't hiding
part of your face? It conveys that you are shy and withdrawn in your
picture. If you are proud of your new figure then show it off with a
new pic and hold your head high, because losing that weight it isn't
something that just everyone could do. Have fun and good luck finding a
fellow in your area.