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 Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
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Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
(Now don't go changing the OP this time... )
Those people don't follow the first rule of a healthy relationship - that is to love themselves so others truly can. |
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They fear being single/lonely again
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Dedication?
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that`s how they grew up,.they`re attracted what`s familar,..if love was abusived then,.that`s all they know,..
cursed to repeat the abuse pattern over & over again,.until like galandgirl says,.you learn to love yourself,.. |
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They fear being single/lonely again or they think they can't find someone that will treat them like a human being then others enjoy drama go figure 
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ps,.they really believe that they can change them,..if they`re really good and try really hard,..they can make that person love them,.. it`s a challenge,..
same way they had to be for mommy or daddy to love them,.. |
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to them,..love is pain & suffering,..
anything else is boring |
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I've been with someone that was never treated right before family, friends and relationships. When we were together things that were normal to me seemed strange and wonderful for her when her life changed "being treated right" she got back to school confidence and life energy. well we got married but after 5 years she went back to wanting low standards. so it becomes their life
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Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
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I've been with someone that was never treated right before family, friends and relationships. When we were together things that were normal to me seemed strange and wonderful for her when her life changed "being treated right" she got back to school confidence and life energy. well we got married but after 5 years she went back to wanting low standards. so it becomes their life  that must of been terribly hard for you,..
to help her achieve so much then watch her fall back down,.as so many do,..because they don`t know how to handle stability,..they are attracted to chaos like moths to a flame,.. |
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low self esteem...
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Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
I don't know, if someone did that to me I would cut them out of my life. Toxic people. |
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Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
Low self esteem |
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Edited by
Citizen_Joe
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Sat 01/17/09 06:21 PM
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Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
Probably had a schitty opposite sex parent, and continued that relationship with others without realizing it. |
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It's called codependency. It's sad when you see a friend being treated like sh!t, you approach them about it, and they say, "But he/she loves me."
I knew a guy who always dated women who completely controlled him. It drove me crazy but he's his own person and that is what he was looking for. He ended up marrying one like that and he seems to be happy. It takes all kinds I guess. 
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Why do some people still love the ones that use them, hurt them, and speak mean about them?
No one can hate forever.
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insanity
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Low self esteem and a glutton for punishment
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well when your whole family is f'd up what do you do?
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