Topic: When does lust become love?
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Sat 01/24/09 01:59 PM
The time between meeting and finally LEAVING is sometimes called falling in love... lol! sorry.. forgot a word.

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Sat 01/24/09 02:00 PM



drool When does lust become love?smitten


When people want to stay with you despite that pic, Mirror :laughing:

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Sat 01/24/09 03:44 PM



drool When does lust become love?smitten

It has happened twice in my life. I cannot pinpoint when it happened or how. I do know that it happened when I and the other forgave and began to love each other as friends, not just lovers. The friendship became more important and it changed the lust to lovemaking.

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Sat 01/24/09 03:45 PM




drool When does lust become love?smitten


When instead of seeing them and wanting to jump their bones to fulfuill your selfish needs, you want to just spend thime with WHO they are and enjoy every moment regardless of activity.


whoa You just know... it is a feeling

Well said.

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Sat 01/24/09 05:15 PM



drool When does lust become love?smitten


When she finally puts out.

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Sat 01/24/09 05:18 PM
Lust is wanting the outside....

Love is.....

finding out whats inside......all the good .....and the bad

and wanting her ......anyway.......

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Sat 01/24/09 05:20 PM

Lust is wanting the outside....

Love is.....

finding out whats inside......all the good .....and the bad

and wanting her ......anyway.......

Love is waking up and finding them still there 50-60 years later

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Sat 01/24/09 05:22 PM

It doesn't.

The innate desire to procreate, or the ego driven insatiability to possess has NOTHING to do with love.


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Sat 01/24/09 10:37 PM
laugh laugh laugh

Trinité's photo
Wed 01/28/09 12:38 AM

What about whips and chains?bigsmile laugh laugh


That is not lust...that's the 5 year anniversary special LOLlaugh

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Wed 01/28/09 05:49 AM
Edited by scoundrel on Wed 01/28/09 05:50 AM



drool When does lust become love?smitten


When her happiness is more important to you than you being part of it.

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Sat 02/21/09 04:47 PM

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Sat 02/21/09 06:55 PM

Lust is I want you for now. Love is I want you forever.


Awesome. I'm borrowing that. May I?

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Sat 02/21/09 07:03 PM



drool When does lust become love?smitten


When you look into their eyes and want to know and feel what's going on inside there...and sex just isn't enough without it.

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Sat 02/21/09 07:04 PM




drool When does lust become love?smitten


When you look into their eyes and want to know and feel what's going on inside there...and sex just isn't enough without it.
bigsmile Thats rightbigsmile

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Sat 02/21/09 07:05 PM




drool When does lust become love?smitten


When you look into their eyes and want to know and feel what's going on inside there...and sex just isn't enough without it.


That is a fantastic answer!

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Sat 02/21/09 07:08 PM





drool When does lust become love?smitten


When you look into their eyes and want to know and feel what's going on inside there...and sex just isn't enough without it.


That is a fantastic answer!



:thumbsup: Indeed:thumbsup:

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Sat 02/21/09 07:14 PM

now why would one want to waste a good lust by doing something like falling in love ....laugh

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Sat 02/21/09 07:22 PM


now why would one want to waste a good lust by doing something like falling in love ....laugh
bigsmile good pointbigsmile

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Sat 02/21/09 07:35 PM
After all the huffin', puffin', ohhhhin', ahhhhhin' and ooo-la-la-in' is long over...when you find that simply being lucky enough to hold each other until sleep comes seems like a wonderful gift in and of itself.