Topic: ladies, what is your idea of a first date? | |
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Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing? Well in the initial post, it was mentioned that they spent 4 hours in a mall just walking around presumably. That was the entire reason to post this thread. To find other options. I could see browsing around for a half hour or so. But 4 hours? That should not be the meat of the date. |
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Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing? I wasn't saying anything bad against the mall idea just wondered what happened to having a nice dinner. Dinner doesn't always have to be the first date. I'd actually prefer something a little shorter next time I go on one, as the last time I couldn't wait for dinner to be over. |
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My sister went on a date where the guy took her fising. They've been married 20 years now...
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Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing? Well in the initial post, it was mentioned that they spent 4 hours in a mall just walking around presumably. That was the entire reason to post this thread. To find other options. I could see browsing around for a half hour or so. But 4 hours? That should not be the meat of the date. I was referring more to Ashley's posts. If he didn't like the mall, perhaps he'll take some of the suggestions into consideration. |
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Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing? I wasn't saying anything bad against the mall idea just wondered what happened to having a nice dinner. Dinner doesn't always have to be the first date. I'd actually prefer something a little shorter next time I go on one, as the last time I couldn't wait for dinner to be over. I had a date with this guy about 6 months ago, he took me to the local casino. Which at first I thought was great. Hell I won $500. After that the date turned really bad, went to dinner. He insisted on ordering for me and ordered a seafood medley plate. Now normaly this would sound great to anyone else EXCEPT I am allergic to shellfish and he knew it. |
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Thu 01/15/09 05:52 AM
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![]() Dinner at a casual, warm restaurant....second time around. |
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Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing? I wasn't saying anything bad against the mall idea just wondered what happened to having a nice dinner. Dinner doesn't always have to be the first date. I'd actually prefer something a little shorter next time I go on one, as the last time I couldn't wait for dinner to be over. I had a date with this guy about 6 months ago, he took me to the local casino. Which at first I thought was great. Hell I won $500. After that the date turned really bad, went to dinner. He insisted on ordering for me and ordered a seafood medley plate. Now normaly this would sound great to anyone else EXCEPT I am allergic to shellfish and he knew it. A casino for a date sounds fun. A date ordering my dinner for me does not sound fun. |
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....a drive wouldve been nice but there's really nothing special about it. It can be fantabulous, especially if you are into nature, country charm, etc. However, its not a good idea for a woman to get into a car and have a drive with a man on a first date. You don't know anything about a person until you have dated a few times. Getting into a car might put you in a vulnerable position and your person can be transported (and left) ANYWHERE.... |
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The casino was fun especially since I didn't have to gamble with my money, however that is where the fun ended
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I like the casino idea.
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lunch was fine...may go to a starbucks or someplace like that later to sit and talk for awhile.
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my favorite first date of all time was a trip to the zoo... i love animals... we got to walk around and talk... and we sat down got a bite to eat... was nothing expensive or fancy... but a lot of fun and we got to know eachother...
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my favorite first date of all time was a trip to the zoo... i love animals... we got to walk around and talk... and we sat down got a bite to eat... was nothing expensive or fancy... but a lot of fun and we got to know eachother... That reminds me of that "Rocky" movie. Remember he took Adrian to the zoo on their first date. I think in the middle of winter also. ![]() |
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