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Topic: ladies, what is your idea of a first date?
B_Root Joined Sun 12/21/08 Posts: 84	Wed 01/14/09 01:51 PM
you insisted on TGiF ... i told you i would have been fine with mickey d's it made me laugh how i'm the date you're talking about. yeah the only thing with mc d's is i get sick when i eat their food for some reason so i try to stay away from there. and any ways i love tgifridays their food is amazing lol.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 01/14/09 01:53 PM
Interesting

ashley_renee Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 14755	Wed 01/14/09 02:44 PM
so i took a girl out to lunch one time , then walked around the coventry mall for about 4 hours (lame). people told me i was an idiot becuase i should have just taking her out to the park or something "FREE". now i though that souded dumb but then again opinions are different. Well the lunch thing sounded fine but dinners are generally more conducive to getting to know one another and allowing for intimate discussion. Walking around a mall for 4 hours is LAME. Was that her idea or yours? For one thing, if the guy asked if I wanted to do that, I would start to have doubts as it related to our overall compatibility. I’m more of an intellectual/naturalist type. >.< Excuse me. A.) It was our first meeting and I figured a mall was the safe route to go. B.) There's nothing else to do in the middle of October.

B_Root Joined Sun 12/21/08 Posts: 84	Wed 01/14/09 07:42 PM
so i took a girl out to lunch one time , then walked around the coventry mall for about 4 hours (lame). people told me i was an idiot becuase i should have just taking her out to the park or something "FREE". now i though that souded dumb but then again opinions are different. Well the lunch thing sounded fine but dinners are generally more conducive to getting to know one another and allowing for intimate discussion. Walking around a mall for 4 hours is LAME. Was that her idea or yours? For one thing, if the guy asked if I wanted to do that, I would start to have doubts as it related to our overall compatibility. I’m more of an intellectual/naturalist type. >.< Excuse me. A.) It was our first meeting and I figured a mall was the safe route to go. B.) There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. true it was the best thing i could come up with if it was summer i would have done the park thing or hell even go out to a show or something but it was cold so what ever lol.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Wed 01/14/09 07:50 PM Edited by Krimsa on Wed 01/14/09 07:52 PM
There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. There are PLENTY of activities besides visiting a mall and walking around for 4 hours. Use your imagination. Ever been to a museum, a movie, an art gallery? Taken a drive?

B_Root Joined Sun 12/21/08 Posts: 84	Thu 01/15/09 01:04 AM
There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. There are PLENTY of activities besides visiting a mall and walking around for 4 hours. Use your imagination. Ever been to a museum, a movie, an art gallery? Taken a drive? please. youd never see me in a museum no offence not my kinda thing. and a movie to me is more of a second date kinda thing especially because you cant talk really to someone in there. a drive wouldve been nice but there's really nothing special about it.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/15/09 02:09 AM
I like to pick pansies on the porch in portugal while portraying pickled priestesses!!!

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Thu 01/15/09 04:59 AM Edited by Krimsa on Thu 01/15/09 04:59 AM
There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. There are PLENTY of activities besides visiting a mall and walking around for 4 hours. Use your imagination. Ever been to a museum, a movie, an art gallery? Taken a drive? please. youd never see me in a museum no offence not my kinda thing. and a movie to me is more of a second date kinda thing especially because you cant talk really to someone in there. a drive wouldve been nice but there's really nothing special about it. I was speaking more to that other person who insisted that there was nothing else that could be done in October. I would have no way of knowing if you personally were incapable of enjoying a museum. Isn’t that more fun than a mall? A little more educational also and it would kill at least an hour and admission to museums of natural history are generally free since you are low on money. What about your date? Isn’t she more important anyway? What if she is bright and enjoys activities of that nature?

ashley_renee Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 14755	Thu 01/15/09 05:09 AM
There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. There are PLENTY of activities besides visiting a mall and walking around for 4 hours. Use your imagination. Ever been to a museum, a movie, an art gallery? Taken a drive? The closest museum to us is about 30-45 minutes away so that's a no. Plus, he was griping about spending 20 bucks for our lunch .. imagine what he would say if he had to pay for our tickets. Because a drive to nowhere sounds SO much more exciting than walking around a mall...

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Thu 01/15/09 05:13 AM
i wouldn't have minded walking around the mall after lunch, window shopping and browsing. besides, i'd like to think that i'd be more interested in getting to know my date and talk with him, rather than looking at the scenary. it's not lame. there's a lot of girls out there that don't need fancy shmancy to be impressed and interested.

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Thu 01/15/09 05:18 AM Edited by Krimsa on Thu 01/15/09 05:23 AM
There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. There are PLENTY of activities besides visiting a mall and walking around for 4 hours. Use your imagination. Ever been to a museum, a movie, an art gallery? Taken a drive? The closest museum to us is about 30-45 minutes away so that's a no. Plus, he was griping about spending 20 bucks for our lunch .. imagine what he would say if he had to pay for our tickets. Because a drive to nowhere sounds SO much more exciting than walking around a mall... You are the woman. Eh, forget it. I have no more interest in this topic. I thought this was a hypothetical woman. If 4 hours walking around a mall is fun to you, then that is your prerogative. I certainly would be inclined to use my imagination and find something else more interesting and stimulating.

papersmile Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 5148	Thu 01/15/09 05:26 AM
There's nothing else to do in the middle of October. There are PLENTY of activities besides visiting a mall and walking around for 4 hours. Use your imagination. Ever been to a museum, a movie, an art gallery? Taken a drive? The closest museum to us is about 30-45 minutes away so that's a no. Plus, he was griping about spending 20 bucks for our lunch .. imagine what he would say if he had to pay for our tickets. Because a drive to nowhere sounds SO much more exciting than walking around a mall... maybe YOU should have offered to pay?

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Thu 01/15/09 05:30 AM
Papersmile has a point there. You could have split expenses. Museums are free most of the time or you make a donation to the Natural History Society. Besides, I never meant for this to turn into an argument and you told me to "shut up" for no reason.

scorpio90 Joined Sun 12/21/08 Posts: 8481	Thu 01/15/09 05:33 AM
Papersmile has a point there. You could have split expenses. Museums are free most of the time or you make a donation to the Natural History Society. Besides, I never meant for this to turn into an argument and you told me to "shut up" for no reason. Hi Krimsa

Krimsa Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 9960	Thu 01/15/09 05:34 AM
Hi there.

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Thu 01/15/09 05:35 AM
I'm sorry but what is wrong with going for a nice quiet dinner with great food, great company and a great converstaion

scorpio90 Joined Sun 12/21/08 Posts: 8481	Thu 01/15/09 05:36 AM
How cold is it in Allentown now?

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Thu 01/15/09 05:37 AM
pretty friggin cold if it is anything like the Poconos......I'm bout 30 miles north and it is 10 degrees here

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Thu 01/15/09 05:38 AM
Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing?

plk1966 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 31042	Thu 01/15/09 05:40 AM Edited by plk1966 on Thu 01/15/09 05:40 AM
Isn't getting to know each other the main thing? If they were able to do that while walking around the mall, is that such a bad thing? I wasn't saying anything bad against the mall idea just wondered what happened to having a nice dinner.