Topic: Why is it....
Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:37 PM
when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?

Derekkye's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:38 PM
there should be no greater guy than the one you are dating

keepthehope's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:40 PM
Did you not think the guy you are with was great when you started dating him?
If not, then why are you dating him?

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:40 PM

when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?
:tongue: I was hiding under your bed:tongue:

Johncenawlife316's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:41 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Tue 01/13/09 09:42 PM

when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?


My guess is they where all around but most women want bad boys.. boys or men who have been in jail a few times and drinks and party like crazy.. not to mention hit there women etc.


joshyfox's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:43 PM
I've heard a lot of people comment on this phenomenon and although I have never been in an actual relationship, I have come up with a theory...

...It is belief that people in a relationship have a level of self-confidence that single people usually lack and it is that confidence that is attractive.

...Pleas keep in mind I only have observations to work with and this theory has yet to be tested in the field.

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:43 PM

Did you not think the guy you are with was great when you started dating him?
If not, then why are you dating him?



He is an amazing guy but it seems that the more i tell guys that im with someone that i want to be with for the rest of my life.......they pursue me even more................temptation is a biotch.............

no photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:43 PM
Most (not all) react differently in front of "not available" woman and will act more naturally instead of the hunter mentality of pursuing you, so that's why you see them differently.

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:44 PM


when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?
:tongue: I was hiding under your bed:tongue:


I knew it was you...........laugh laugh laugh

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:45 PM

Most (not all) react differently in front of "not available" woman and will act more naturally instead of the hunter mentality of pursuing you, so that's why you see them differently.


I think your right because they dont have to be on their guard........well i have tried to be friends with them from a distance but now it seems like they have an agenda............

rlynne's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:47 PM

when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?


people want what they can't have, people want what other people want/have

its also the confidence, the natural easy going air..since you have a man you aren't worried about finding one...

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:53 PM


when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?


people want what they can't have, people want what other people want/have

its also the confidence, the natural easy going air..since you have a man you aren't worried about finding one...


Thats true and it would seem like to find a girl who is single would be easier that trying to manipulate your way into someone who is happy..............

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:55 PM



when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?
:tongue: I was hiding under your bed:tongue:


I knew it was you...........laugh laugh laugh
pitchfork Sometimes when you are in your bed with a guy, I am hiding under there listening to everything.:tongue:

Tanzkity's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:56 PM




when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?
:tongue: I was hiding under your bed:tongue:


I knew it was you...........laugh laugh laugh
pitchfork Sometimes when you are in your bed with a guy, I am hiding under there listening to everything.:tongue:


See that really sweet and now i feel much safer..............you are a hot mess............laugh laugh

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 01/13/09 10:00 PM

when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?
...not at your place where you were hiding?

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/13/09 10:34 PM





when you are in a relationship is when every man wants you and then you meet all these great guys? Where were these guys when I was single?
:tongue: I was hiding under your bed:tongue:


I knew it was you...........laugh laugh laugh
pitchfork Sometimes when you are in your bed with a guy, I am hiding under there listening to everything.:tongue:


See that really sweet and now i feel much safer..............you are a hot mess............laugh laugh


flowers :laughing: flowers

keepthehope's photo
Wed 01/14/09 12:43 AM


Did you not think the guy you are with was great when you started dating him?
If not, then why are you dating him?



He is an amazing guy but it seems that the more i tell guys that im with someone that i want to be with for the rest of my life.......they pursue me even more................temptation is a biotch.............

It's only temptation if you want it sweety. If you have decided to that this is the guy you want to be with for the rest of your life, then you won't care about the rest of them, even if they walked up to you naked and wanting to marry you!