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Topic: If nice guys finish last...where do nice gals finish?
Aquila_ Joined Mon 01/12/09 Posts: 87	Tue 01/13/09 11:25 PM
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moofooga Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 25515	Tue 01/13/09 11:26 PM
Its like the saying goes- Good girls go to Heaven. Bad girls go everywhere.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Wed 01/14/09 01:22 AM
Do many women even refer to themselves as nice women? You don't see the "waaah I'm a nice girl and I don't know why I finish last" kind of threads really. Those comments from women are in the older forums.

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Wed 01/14/09 01:42 AM Edited by JoeW99 on Wed 01/14/09 01:45 AM
Personally I don't believe nice guys finish last, at least not with me. I only made the thread to introduce myself. I figured a chat topic was better than just saying "hi, I want a man." It's largely a terminology thing. There have been approximately 42,881 "Why don't girls like nice guys?" threads in the forums -- always posted by a self-proclaimed "nice guy" who can't seem to get anywhere -- in the 2 years I've been here. The backlash has been that a lot of people have a negative, knee-jerk reaction to the term "nice guy." Since there's never been any sort of clear-cut definition, or explanation of what it really means (let's face it, it's pretty subjective), and because the topic has become so repetitive, the trendy thing has become to equate "nice" with "boring" and "bland" and "totally uninteresting." It isn't that "nice guys" are bad, or don't deserve attention. It's just that, here, anyway, they have tended to come across as a bit on the whiny and needy side. And I think that's created a bit of a stigma. Yeah been here a total of 2 weeks and already have a reply copy/pasted for the nice guy threads... was 2 within 30 minutes of each other the other night Get out, meet people, and cry less...

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Wed 01/14/09 01:43 AM
Actually nice guys don't finish last, they just run a different race. It's not a race if you are running solo. Gotta love the "nice guys" of the world.

Aquila_ Joined Mon 01/12/09 Posts: 87	Wed 01/14/09 02:10 AM
Its like the saying goes- Good girls go to Heaven. Bad girls go everywhere. moofooga The only place I want to go is sleep but for some reason sleep eludes me tonight. The forums seem to have no problem sleeping. I even went back to my old stand-by forum and it was slow. Maybe everyone is bundled up from the cold with that special someone. All I have is an oversized stuffed animal.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Wed 01/14/09 02:29 AM


CChristo Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 155	Wed 01/14/09 01:06 PM
... it seems that nice girls usually wind up with some unappreciatve asshole that treats them terribly. What a shame.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 01/14/09 01:08 PM
Is this a trick question? Can we get a multiple choice?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 01/14/09 01:11 PM
With everything in a divorce

Aquila_ Joined Mon 01/12/09 Posts: 87	Wed 01/14/09 03:49 PM
Is this a trick question? Can we get a multiple choice? Are you saying you forgot to study again Waterloosunset? bad dog. If you're nice I'll let you do a make up test after school.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 01/14/09 03:51 PM
My first op on mingle. I was trying to think of something great but instead I'm going for a simple chat topic. I figured it's best not to pick a controversial subject as my first op. If nice guys finish last then the bad boys must finish first. Where do the nice ladies and bad girls finish? They get used and abused by the not-so-nice guys

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Wed 01/14/09 03:51 PM
Is this a trick question? Can we get a multiple choice? Are you saying you forgot to study again Waterloosunset? bad dog. If you're nice I'll let you do a make up test after school. Yes, I'll need plenty of EXTRA help

Aquila_ Joined Mon 01/12/09 Posts: 87	Wed 01/14/09 03:54 PM
My first op on mingle. I was trying to think of something great but instead I'm going for a simple chat topic. I figured it's best not to pick a controversial subject as my first op. If nice guys finish last then the bad boys must finish first. Where do the nice ladies and bad girls finish? They get used and abused by the not-so-nice guys Mirrormirror, do you live inside the mingle2 forums? I see you everywhere . Do you work for the mingle2 administration or are you some kind of computer bug that crawls the mingle2 circuits?

plainascanbe Joined Sat 10/11/08 Posts: 171	Wed 01/14/09 03:55 PM
I have nothing to comment to that..too deep for me.lol

plainascanbe Joined Sat 10/11/08 Posts: 171	Wed 01/14/09 03:57 PM
uhmmmmmmm ok.Yeah what is the take loo

durtydduck Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 1972	Wed 01/14/09 04:02 PM
Where do the nice ladies and bad girls finish? They end up on dating sites complaining about the logistics of toilet seat positioning. laughed so hard it hurts....but its so true.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Wed 01/14/09 04:04 PM
Where do the nice ladies and bad girls finish? They end up on dating sites complaining about the logistics of toilet seat positioning. laughed so hard it hurts....but its so true. Well, it had to be said....

plainascanbe Joined Sat 10/11/08 Posts: 171	Wed 01/14/09 04:05 PM
that went far off out of here, now didnt we.