Topic: If nice guys finish last...where do nice gals finish?
longhairbiker's photo
Tue 01/13/09 01:55 PM
I think its funny. As long as I got off first- its funny. I've never been jealous over a bob before. Piece of plastic n batteries.

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Tue 01/13/09 02:00 PM
all good boys and girls end last, its the bad ones that fu%* it up for us nice poeple....

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Tue 01/13/09 02:00 PM


Sometimes first. Sometimes never. And in my case......almost always alone. laugh


I'm sorry, I hope you find a nice guy or bad boy that fits you. flowerforyou

I'd like to marry a nice guy and turn him into a bad boy. My own personal bad boy with a Haley and a curfew.
I want a man who likes to cuddle and who doesn't mind beating up any other man who tries cuddling with me.

I want a nice bad boy. shades


Now post this everytime some guy complains about being a nice guy and not getting any. Heh, heh, I wish you luck in your quest.

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Tue 01/13/09 02:03 PM
Nice girls end up with a clean conscience and bad ones if they care have a guilty one.

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Tue 01/13/09 02:19 PM
THE BAD GIRLS END UP ON SANTAS NAUGHTY LISTlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup: winking winking winking winking waving

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Tue 01/13/09 02:21 PM

THE BAD GIRLS END UP ON SANTAS NAUGHTY LISTlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup: winking winking winking winking waving


Do you really laugh that much every time you post something?

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Tue 01/13/09 02:28 PM


THE BAD GIRLS END UP ON SANTAS NAUGHTY LISTlaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl :thumbsup: winking winking winking winking waving


Do you really laugh that much every time you post something?
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I've noticed that as well

canaryrx8's photo
Tue 01/13/09 02:33 PM
Edited by canaryrx8 on Tue 01/13/09 02:33 PM
Actually nice guys don't finish last, they just run a different race. bigsmile

Aquila_'s photo
Tue 01/13/09 02:37 PM
Edited by Aquila_ on Tue 01/13/09 03:00 PM



Sometimes first. Sometimes never. And in my case......almost always alone. laugh


I'm sorry, I hope you find a nice guy or bad boy that fits you. flowerforyou

I'd like to marry a nice guy and turn him into a bad boy. My own personal bad boy with a Haley and a curfew.
I want a man who likes to cuddle and who doesn't mind beating up any other man who tries cuddling with me.

I want a nice bad boy. shades


Now post this everytime some guy complains about being a nice guy and not getting any. Heh, heh, I wish you luck in your quest.

waving Hi

Any what? winking
I'm not on a quest, I'm not a hobbit. Just a girl looking for a nice cubewano.

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Tue 01/13/09 04:21 PM

all good boys and girls end last, its the bad ones that fu%* it up for us nice poeple....


How did you come to this conclusion?

Personally I don't believe nice guys finish last, at least not with me. I only made the thread to introduce myself. I figured a chat topic was better than just saying "hi, I want a man."

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Tue 01/13/09 04:27 PM
If nice guys finish last then the bad boys must finish first. Where do the nice ladies and bad girls finish?


bad girls finish at Mongo's crib

MONGO!!!!

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Tue 01/13/09 04:28 PM

Personally I don't believe nice guys finish last, at least not with me. I only made the thread to introduce myself. I figured a chat topic was better than just saying "hi, I want a man."


It's largely a terminology thing.

There have been approximately 42,881 "Why don't girls like nice guys?" threads in the forums -- always posted by a self-proclaimed "nice guy" who can't seem to get anywhere -- in the 2 years I've been here.

The backlash has been that a lot of people have a negative, knee-jerk reaction to the term "nice guy." Since there's never been any sort of clear-cut definition, or explanation of what it really means (let's face it, it's pretty subjective), and because the topic has become so repetitive, the trendy thing has become to equate "nice" with "boring" and "bland" and "totally uninteresting."

It isn't that "nice guys" are bad, or don't deserve attention. It's just that, here, anyway, they have tended to come across as a bit on the whiny and needy side. And I think that's created a bit of a stigma.



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Tue 01/13/09 04:32 PM
Do many women even refer to themselves as nice women? You don't see the "waaah I'm a nice girl and I don't know why I finish last" kind of threads really.

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Tue 01/13/09 04:32 PM


Personally I don't believe nice guys finish last, at least not with me. I only made the thread to introduce myself. I figured a chat topic was better than just saying "hi, I want a man."


It's largely a terminology thing.

There have been approximately 42,881 "Why don't girls like nice guys?" threads in the forums -- always posted by a self-proclaimed "nice guy" who can't seem to get anywhere -- in the 2 years I've been here.

The backlash has been that a lot of people have a negative, knee-jerk reaction to the term "nice guy." Since there's never been any sort of clear-cut definition, or explanation of what it really means (let's face it, it's pretty subjective), and because the topic has become so repetitive, the trendy thing has become to equate "nice" with "boring" and "bland" and "totally uninteresting."

It isn't that "nice guys" are bad, or don't deserve attention. It's just that, here, anyway, they have tended to come across as a bit on the whiny and needy side. And I think that's created a bit of a stigma.





I picked up on that fact the first hour of reading the forum and I've seen the same thing somewhere else. I thought poking fun at the topic would be a way to introduce myself. Next I am going to ask why men don't write anything in their profiles. :laughing:
I don't know if the topic has been done to death here as it has on "dating site X" (a site I occasionally visit).

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Tue 01/13/09 04:35 PM
Edited by Aquila_ on Tue 01/13/09 04:36 PM

Do many women even refer to themselves as nice women? You don't see the "waaah I'm a nice girl and I don't know why I finish last" kind of threads really.


"waaah....last"

I was going to make that the title of this thread but I was afraid no one would believe me and I was afraid some would think I was mocking. In truth, I was just trying to get attention in a funny and non threatening or controversial way.

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Tue 01/13/09 04:36 PM

I picked up on that fact the first hour of reading the forum and I've seen the same thing somewhere else. I thought poking fun at the topic would be a way to introduce myself.


It's a great target for satire -- I do it quite a bit myself. I started a huge thread a few days ago called "Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks Thread," as a counterpoint to the "nice guy" stuff. I think it was cathartic for any number of people. ("Two" is a number, right?)


Next I am going to ask why men don't write anything in their profiles. :laughing:


Word of warning -- I'm REALLY going to disappoint you on that one....

Aquila_'s photo
Tue 01/13/09 04:43 PM


It's a great target for satire -- I do it quite a bit myself. I started a huge thread a few days ago called "Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks Thread," as a counterpoint to the "nice guy" stuff. I think it was cathartic for any number of people. ("Two" is a number, right?)


I don't see the way to search for threads here. Doesn't mingle have a thread title search bar?



Word of warning -- I'm REALLY going to disappoint you on that one....



I looked and I can't find a smiley that is appropriate or that expresses the amazement I had after clicking your profile.
Maybe this one. shocked ...or this one...surprised

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Tue 01/13/09 04:49 PM

I don't see the way to search for threads here. Doesn't mingle have a thread title search bar?


Here's the one I was talking about -- if you like satire with just a hint of brutal honesty and a slice of cynicism on the side, you'll love this one.

http://mingle2.com/topic/show/195514


I looked and I can't find a smiley that is appropriate or that expresses the amazement I had after clicking your profile.
Maybe this one. shocked ...or this one...surprised


It's practically a book of its own. Not much of a plot, but you can't have everything....



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Tue 01/13/09 05:10 PM
Thanks for the link Lexfonteyne. You make both long threads and long profiles. I wonder what else ...
...Forget it. :angel:


So no thread search function? That's unusual.

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Tue 01/13/09 05:11 PM


waving My first op on mingle. I was trying to think of something great but instead I'm going for a simple chat topic. I figured it's best not to pick a controversial subject as my first op.


If nice guys finish last then the bad boys must finish first. Where do the nice ladies and bad girls finish?



... Bad girls finish at the federal correctional facility at mitchellville iowa and nice ladies finish in alcohol/ drug rehab.


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