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Have you ever outright told the girl that you are "trying to win" that you are a nice guy and not like all the others?
I've been talking to someone who said this to me and it's not something that I've had said to me before. He also went on to explain why he is different from "the others". Whats your take on this? Could he be legit or just full of $hit? |
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i would say either one or both, stay cautious
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Have you ever outright told the girl that you are "trying to win" that you are a nice guy and not like all the others? I've been talking to someone who said this to me and it's not something that I've had said to me before. He also went on to explain why he is different from "the others". Whats your take on this? Could he be legit or just full of $hit? Could be legit, could also just as easily be full of ****. I've never tried that because as a 'nice guy' I rarely toot my own horn unless I just won in a video game. Take it with a grain of salt, but I don't think it'd be fair to automatically assume he's full of ****. |
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Partly full of sh*t because he may be a nice guy, but how can he know what the others are all like? He must have a crystal ball, huh?
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some are full of s%$t, but other are legit, like me:) im with rare be cautious
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Have you ever outright told the girl that you are "trying to win" that you are a nice guy and not like all the others? I've been talking to someone who said this to me and it's not something that I've had said to me before. He also went on to explain why he is different from "the others". Whats your take on this? Could he be legit or just full of $hit? K, I know I'm not a guy but...what the hell does "trying to win" mean? win what? do what with the victory? I dunno watch the words..most truly nice guys (that don't have some sort of "walk away slowly/ run, now aspects to themselves) point is the good ones don't have to tell you they are nice. |
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I dont know what the others are, we all are different, I myself am a hopeless romantic, and have been hurt by this.
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Well since this is for nice guys that leaves me out
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I never explain , I let them see for themselves.
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The others that he was refering to are the not so good for you type guy that Women sometimes gravitate to (bad boy, does drugs, ends up in jail, lies, cheats, things of that sort)
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Well the important thing to find out is if he's a nerd or a geek, because they're rarely a 'bad boy' and are the most likely type to be considered 'nice guys'.
So bring up Halo or Super Mario or World of Warcraft and if he bites then you've got yourself a nice-guy nerd. |
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Ok, so far the verdic seems to be: Be very weary, but give him a chance to prove himself. |
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Could be legit, I had to say this several times over with my last girlfriend, cuz all she talked about was the abusive relationships she has had. Needless to say, she dumped me anyway. Aparently she thought I am like all the others.
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Well the important thing to find out is if he's a nerd or a geek, because they're rarely a 'bad boy' and are the most likely type to be considered 'nice guys'. So bring up Halo or Super Mario or World of Warcraft and if he bites then you've got yourself a nice-guy nerd. That could also mean computer zombie. 
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Have you ever outright told the girl that you are "trying to win" that you are a nice guy and not like all the others? I've been talking to someone who said this to me and it's not something that I've had said to me before. He also went on to explain why he is different from "the others". Whats your take on this? Could he be legit or just full of $hit?  I can not begin to tell you how MANY times I've heard this .. 
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I never explain , I let them see for themselves. EXACTLLLLLLLLY |
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It depends whose definition of "nice guy" you are using.
A guy that considers himself to be a "nice guy" thinks that he is kind, compassionate, considerate, supportive, and loving. A gal that uses the term "nice guy" means weak, shy, submissive, and boring. Based upon the female definition, a aggressive attempt to win is a contradiction. But according to the guy definition, it is perfectly reasonable. |
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Ok, so far the verdic seems to be: Be very weary, but give him a chance to prove himself. Shouldn't that always be the case? |
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Well since this is for nice guys that leaves me out And honest 
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