Ever broken off a relationship by simply not speaking to that person anymore? Ignore them? Or had it done to you? If so, why did you do it? Or how did you deal with it?

Ive had it done to me

I have had it done to me...and the only thing I could think of was NEXT..no big deal...

Well, I broke up with one fellow years ago, but he KEPT CALLING anyway so I had to ignore him.

Yes,,I have done it and it has been done to me,,,, I think most look for something better and had it all just blew it!!!

Had it done to me,but I would never be that mean.

Yes, I've had it done to me. It hurts and my closure issues go bonkers!

Had some issues to deal with, so I said I needed a little time to do that. He got mad. Probably two weeks of no communication until I sent a Happy New Year text, just to attempt to keep the lines of communication open...but no reply...and nothing since then. So there you have it.

hey jill totally off topic please don't turn me in...but yesterday you said you were a good witch...can you tell me just what is it witches worship...not being funny I really wanna understand...

I've been dating someone for almost 9 months now and suddenly out of nowhere, he has quit speaking to me. Totally ignoring me. And I just need to know why someone would do that or how you deal with it.

I've had it done to me... leaves me wondering why.

It was done to me once.
But, I figure that anyone so callous
simply does not deserve to be remembered.

move on..people do things like that to others all the time...I know it hurts but if you dwell on it they win...look at you...you can have your pick of guys...

I've done it, not proud of it but having a shotgun pulled on you is not a healthy life style!

You really don't have much choice... with no contact, you'll most likely never know why. I just try to forget it, chalking it up to experience.

Actually, I'm thankful it didn't work out because if he was capable of leaving me hanging like that with no word and no explanation, it makes me wonder what other rude habits or lack of consideration he may have had. So, I guess I'm better off without him... but it would still be nice to know the reasons.

Move on as best you can... that's what I'm doing... I still wonder sometimes, I guess I always will.

Nothing can make that okay and the excuse would seem lame and most likely be a lie.

it is a lame act and childish, also it shows how gutless is the person.
people should have the courtesy to communicate a break-up!

I say send a text, "It's over and I'm out...."

If you've heard nothing from him you end it, you get closure for yourself.

Had it done to me and I have done it to another. Only after the "official" endings. Why? Because some people have a harder time with endings than others - and sometimes there is no other way.

Extinguishing a behavior by not feeding it usually works.

sounds like hes a jerk look at it this way,its his loss