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Topic: have you?
PATSFAN's photo
Mon 01/12/09 12:58 PM


mad I'm not talking to youmad
ohwell



I'm kiddingflowers

no photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:00 PM

It's been done to me.

Here's what's even more messed up...

So it's been about two weeks since she cut off all communication. I've tried calling numerous times, the I finally just gave up. So it's about 2am on a tuesday night and I get a phone call. It's her. Or so I thought.

It was actually her friend calling on her phone. Becky didn't want to talk to me directly, so she had her friend do that talking. And what, pray tell, did she want? She was wondering if I could go and bring them ALL (all being becky, her friend, and my former best friend) some food because they were partying and are now hungry.

Nice huh?


wow, and i thought i knew some really awful people.grumble

Citizen_Joe's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:08 PM

It's been done to me.

Here's what's even more messed up...

So it's been about two weeks since she cut off all communication. I've tried calling numerous times, the I finally just gave up. So it's about 2am on a tuesday night and I get a phone call. It's her. Or so I thought.

It was actually her friend calling on her phone. Becky didn't want to talk to me directly, so she had her friend do that talking. And what, pray tell, did she want? She was wondering if I could go and bring them ALL (all being becky, her friend, and my former best friend) some food because they were partying and are now hungry.

Nice huh?


I wonder if ex-lax can be detected in the blood stream... hmmm. Oh. Idle thoughts, don't mind me.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:17 PM

It's been done to me.

Here's what's even more messed up...

So it's been about two weeks since she cut off all communication. I've tried calling numerous times, the I finally just gave up. So it's about 2am on a tuesday night and I get a phone call. It's her. Or so I thought.

It was actually her friend calling on her phone. Becky didn't want to talk to me directly, so she had her friend do that talking. And what, pray tell, did she want? She was wondering if I could go and bring them ALL (all being becky, her friend, and my former best friend) some food because they were partying and are now hungry.

Nice huh?


wow.. REALLY hoping you didn't get them food...


Jill298's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:21 PM
I certainly hope not, that just screams doormat. If my ex did that to me... I would say "sure, I'll be right there" and I would show up, kick him in the balls, and go home and back to bed.

nlas's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:25 PM
No no, of course not.

Didn't really ever go back to sleep that night though. Or the next.

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:25 PM

No no, of course not.

Didn't really ever go back to sleep that night though. Or the next.
what did you say? were you nice to her on the phone?

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:27 PM
Edited by SilentlyScreaming on Mon 01/12/09 01:27 PM

No no, of course not.

Didn't really ever go back to sleep that night though. Or the next.


awww *hugs*... you should have b!tched her out on the phone... i would have... but that's just because i'm a b!tch... lol

EXAchilles's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:27 PM
I've had it done to me. The girl even had the audacity to put me down on a resume as a reference two years later. So I get this call asking me about my fake work relationship with this girl we'll call "Vicky".

So I get the call from the Coast Guard Academy asking me about it. I ask "well what did she put down so I don't tell you what you already know?"

"Well it says here that you were her manager at (retail store) and that she received three employee commendations."

That's where I decided to have some fun.

"Did she say commendations? I think she meant condemnations. Vicky showed up late to work constantly, and we eventually had to let her go because she was stealing and drinking on the clock."

Maybe I was bitter because she led me on and used me quite a bit, and maybe after two years I should have gotten over it, but dammit if I didn't feel good after that.

Just desserts.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:28 PM
... wow... indifferent

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:29 PM
Just so you know, you can get sued for doing that.

nlas's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:29 PM


No no, of course not.

Didn't really ever go back to sleep that night though. Or the next.
what did you say? were you nice to her on the phone?


I was kinda silent for about 2+ minutes. Then I said "Are you ****ing serious???" and hung up.

She actually didn't think there was anything wrong with that.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:31 PM



No no, of course not.

Didn't really ever go back to sleep that night though. Or the next.
what did you say? were you nice to her on the phone?


I was kinda silent for about 2+ minutes. Then I said "Are you ****ing serious???" and hung up.

She actually didn't think there was anything wrong with that.


sounds like she was quite a catch... huh lol

thumper95's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:32 PM
i had an ex start acting like my ex wife,, and that soured me right then. i got real quiet,, wouldnt go near her,, and when we left the spot we were at i cut off all contact with her. wouldnt take her phone calls, if she called me at work i would hang up on her,, if she tried to call my house i had people tell her i had moved,, and i wound up changing my phone number so i didnt have to deal with her,,, if ya cant tell i cant stand my ex wife,, and if a woman reminds me of her i run like i got a steak hanging off my ass and a pack of rabid pitbulls chasing me

EXAchilles's photo
Mon 01/12/09 01:41 PM

Just so you know, you can get sued for doing that.


Are you talking to me?

I never worked with "Vicky", she put me as a reference because she didn't have any, so if she sues me then I don't think she has a case.

CChristo's photo
Mon 01/12/09 03:05 PM
... I've had it done to me just once, ironically by the very woman I fell in love with HARD; I can't even begin to describe how much it hurt. It did nothing for closure, it only fostered a wide variety of feelings and thoughts, none of which were healthy, and ended with me turning this person off in my heart, something I never wanted in the first place. I will never do that to someone else ~ it's rude, insensitive, dismissive, childish and painful.

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