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I take the lack of communication as the break up. Especially when you're use to talking to the person everyday....it's pretty obvious that it's over when there's no more communication.
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Ever broken off a relationship by simply not speaking to that person anymore? Ignore them? Or had it done to you? If so, why did you do it? Or how did you deal with it? Had it done to me and I have done it to another. Only after the "official" endings. Why? Because some people have a harder time with endings than others - and sometimes there is no other way. Extinguishing a behavior by not feeding it usually works. |
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hey jill totally off topic please don't turn me in...but yesterday you said you were a good witch...can you tell me just what is it witches worship...not being funny I really wanna understand... Google "Wicca". |
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Edited by
angelindarkness
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Mon 01/12/09 11:59 AM
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Ever broken off a relationship by simply not speaking to that person anymore? Ignore them? Or had it done to you? If so, why did you do it? Or how did you deal with it? Had it done to me and I have done it to another. Only after the "official" endings. Why? Because some people have a harder time with endings than others - and sometimes there is no other way. Extinguishing a behavior by not feeding it usually works. Any chance you might have missed the cues or buzz words? Maybe through denial or rationalization? And, some people feel too overwhelmed or sad or guilty about endings. Some just don't know how, so they leave loose ends. Unfinished business. Sometimes we get no closure and must simply come to it on our own, in our own time and way. |
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Actually, I'm thankful it didn't work out because if he was capable of leaving me hanging like that with no word and no explanation, it makes me wonder what other rude habits or lack of consideration he may have had. So, I guess I'm better off without him...  |
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Ever broken off a relationship by simply not speaking to that person anymore? Ignore them? Or had it done to you? If so, why did you do it? Or how did you deal with it? Had it done to me and I have done it to another. Only after the "official" endings. Why? Because some people have a harder time with endings than others - and sometimes there is no other way. Extinguishing a behavior by not feeding it usually works. Any chance you might have missed the cues or buzz words? Maybe through denial or rationalization? And, some people feel too overwhelmed or sad or guilty about endings. Some just don't know how, so they leave loose ends. Unfinished business. Sometimes we get no closure and must simply come to it on our own, in our own time and way. |
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I take the lack of communication as the break up. Especially when you're use to talking to the person everyday....it's pretty obvious that it's over when there's no more communication. |
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Well, I broke up with one fellow years ago, but he KEPT CALLING anyway so I had to ignore him. i can relate |
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Boys are stupid. We must throw rocks at them.
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Hey it's your story
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Hi, Dubby Dub Dubz....
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I've been dating someone for almost 9 months now and suddenly out of nowhere, he has quit speaking to me. Totally ignoring me. And I just need to know why someone would do that or how you deal with it. move on..people do things like that to others all the time...I know it hurts but if you dwell on it they win...look at you...you can have your pick of guys...
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 I'm not talking to you
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 FLAME ON
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I'm not talking to you 
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Calleigh12
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Mon 01/12/09 12:53 PM
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i've done it and had it done to me. sometimes it's just easier, i guess it's the cowards way out, but we all make mistakes.
As for how I dealt with it when it was done to me, I just felt bad until I felt better.
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Ever broken off a relationship by simply not speaking to that person anymore? Ignore them? Or had it done to you? If so, why did you do it? Or how did you deal with it? i think i posted something like this the other day... i would never do that, its childish, and just shows that you don't have the balls to tell them how you really feel... i had something like this happen to me... wasn't a relationship though... just someone i kind of liked... who stopped talking to me, completely avoiding me... and left me wondering what the hell happened.. i dealt with it by realizing he was a douche bag... there are other fish in the sea, and if one is worth my time, they won't treat me like that... |
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It's been done to me.
Here's what's even more messed up... So it's been about two weeks since she cut off all communication. I've tried calling numerous times, the I finally just gave up. So it's about 2am on a tuesday night and I get a phone call. It's her. Or so I thought. It was actually her friend calling on her phone. Becky didn't want to talk to me directly, so she had her friend do that talking. And what, pray tell, did she want? She was wondering if I could go and bring them ALL (all being becky, her friend, and my former best friend) some food because they were partying and are now hungry. Nice huh? |
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It's been done to me. Here's what's even more messed up... So it's been about two weeks since she cut off all communication. I've tried calling numerous times, the I finally just gave up. So it's about 2am on a tuesday night and I get a phone call. It's her. Or so I thought. It was actually her friend calling on her phone. Becky didn't want to talk to me directly, so she had her friend do that talking. And what, pray tell, did she want? She was wondering if I could go and bring them ALL (all being becky, her friend, and my former best friend) some food because they were partying and are now hungry. Nice huh? |
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