First of all, it was a question, as noted by the "?". There was no teasing inferred.

Secondly, I don't recall asking for your opinion.

The OP is an 18 year old boy. Do you really think he is going to listen to any constructive criticism as it relates to his grammar?

Welcocme! I wish you the best in what you're looking for!

I don’t think it’s an intentional thing, people just get hurt sometimes and it changes them, you know what I mean.
Say a girl is dating this perfect guy in her eyes, and then one day she finds out that he isn’t so perfect and likes to go out on the relationship.
Well basically what that guy did was took that girl and broke her down to someone less then what she was.
Have you ever heard someone say this before “We just make them perfect for someone ells”
Same concept
If you are dating someone, and everything is normal, say like cheating is not involved, but the two people just don’t work out.
Well what they did was to learn from each other and grow in that way, so maybe if the guy starts up a new relationship, this time he might remember to put down the toilet seat, and if the girl starts up a new relationship, she might try a little harder to except her new partners friends or be a little open minded that those friends were there first.
But as for that girl who got cheated on or kicked to the curb without good reason like they weren’t worth a damn, well they don’t learn anything but bitterness and resentment, especially if it happens over and over again, because face it, most of the time we are attracted to the same type of person and we date them over and over and over, same person just different outfit, well at least that’s my personal opinion anyway.

Basically what it comes down to is that a man has to be a man and treat the women in his life like princesses and not like the cheap thrill that a lot of us pricks do.
And if you come across a girl that’s been hurt, which you will… a lot … you have to reassure them over and over and constantly chase them and sooner or later they might give in, just do yourself and the rest of us a favor and prove to her that she’s worth it and that she’s the bomb and that not all men are crap, just occasionally stupid.
And if for some reason it doesn’t work out, Give them a reasonable heart felt explanation and encourage them to keep searching for someone to fill those shoes, because no one should go through life alone and just give up because one person couldn’t hack it when there are so many people out there that are more then willing to fill those shoes.

Same goes to all you women who don’t already know.

….. yeah I’m done