Topic: Question
Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 12:44 PM

I'm still trying to find out what the question is.

*EDIT* Nevermind, I found it. I didn't spot it at first, because I saw no question marks.



Sorry I guess I should have put a question mark on the question.. my bad.

Krimsa's photo
Fri 01/09/09 12:45 PM
You have two photos that are BOTH extremely blurry. huh

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 12:47 PM

You have two photos that are BOTH extremely blurry. huh


They just did not up load right on the site since they where uploaded on JSH not on here. Maybe if I take them down and reload them up they will come up better.. dunno.

luckyguy2008's photo
Fri 01/09/09 12:52 PM
Dont worry about everyone else. Work on you and when you are feeling it everyone will see you for who you are and you actually look better when you are happy! It works for everyone. A good smile always helps! Cant wait for the new pics!!!drinker drinker

Krimsa's photo
Fri 01/09/09 12:53 PM


You have two photos that are BOTH extremely blurry. huh


They just did not up load right on the site since they where uploaded on JSH not on here. Maybe if I take them down and reload them up they will come up better.. dunno.


You can try that but you probably just need to take some newer ones. Do a close up head shot and then also one further back for body.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:11 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Fri 01/09/09 01:13 PM



You have two photos that are BOTH extremely blurry. huh


They just did not up load right on the site since they where uploaded on JSH not on here. Maybe if I take them down and reload them up they will come up better.. dunno.


You can try that but you probably just need to take some newer ones. Do a close up head shot and then also one further back for body.


Yeah probably so just need newer pics.. I don't know if webcams can do all of that from close up's to further away pictures or what.

Although I was told by some one else I had spoken to from this site, that my pics look better off of myspace page.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:12 PM

Dont worry about everyone else. Work on you and when you are feeling it everyone will see you for who you are and you actually look better when you are happy! It works for everyone. A good smile always helps! Cant wait for the new pics!!!drinker drinker


Good point you make.

no photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:23 PM
Beauty is a relative term, it various by culture, race, age, region, country, etc etc. So what's ugly to me won't necessarily be ugly to someone else. I have three friends and every one of us defines a "hot" guy in a different way, there is never a time when we can look at one man and agree that he looks good. Therefore, asking the site if you're ugly won't do you much good, if you really want honest opinions, since many people on here are polite enough to not want to hurt anyone's feelings.

I've had many men ask me if I thought they looked good and when I told them no, they got mad. My answer to that is, if you don't really want to know, don't ask. And even if a guy does look good to me, the very fact that he was so arrogant that he asked and then thought I should validate his opinion of himself, I find that to be a turnoff.

I have no opinion of your pics, actually, so I won't answer your question, but I would like to give you some advice: if you go around defining yourself by what people think of you, you're always going to be disappointed. Think well of yourself, work with what you've got; if you have nice eyes, build on that, if you have great hair, keep it looking nice. No one made themselves, you have your parents to thank for that, so it's not really a compliment or an insult to call someone good looking or ugly, it's just rude to say the latter. Anyway, that's just JMO.

Best of luck.flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:24 PM
dude trust me your not ugly at all!

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:44 PM

Beauty is a relative term, it various by culture, race, age, region, country, etc etc. So what's ugly to me won't necessarily be ugly to someone else. I have three friends and every one of us defines a "hot" guy in a different way, there is never a time when we can look at one man and agree that he looks good. Therefore, asking the site if you're ugly won't do you much good, if you really want honest opinions, since many people on here are polite enough to not want to hurt anyone's feelings.

I've had many men ask me if I thought they looked good and when I told them no, they got mad. My answer to that is, if you don't really want to know, don't ask. And even if a guy does look good to me, the very fact that he was so arrogant that he asked and then thought I should validate his opinion of himself, I find that to be a turnoff.

I have no opinion of your pics, actually, so I won't answer your question, but I would like to give you some advice: if you go around defining yourself by what people think of you, you're always going to be disappointed. Think well of yourself, work with what you've got; if you have nice eyes, build on that, if you have great hair, keep it looking nice. No one made themselves, you have your parents to thank for that, so it's not really a compliment or an insult to call someone good looking or ugly, it's just rude to say the latter. Anyway, that's just JMO.

Best of luck.flowerforyou


Thank you for your advice.

drinker drinker

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:45 PM

dude trust me your not ugly at all!


Thank you for your respond.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:51 PM

After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question..

Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking.

Am I really an ugly person as I was told.

Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date.


:smile: Theres some chicks onhere that will bash you. :smile: Probably dudes in disguise or something.laugh I only ever had it happen once, very recently.:smile:

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:51 PM
When you first said "am I an ugly person" I was not thinking about your appearence. The hottest guy on the planet could still be ugly to me, based on his personality.

Krimsa's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:53 PM
Lee, that clown photo freaks me out. Is that its legs coming out of its head like a contortionist or it has like a weird hat on? huh

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:54 PM


After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question..

Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking.

Am I really an ugly person as I was told.

Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date.


:smile: Theres some chicks onhere that will bash you. :smile: Probably dudes in disguise or something.laugh I only ever had it happen once, very recently.:smile:


lol true.. never know Mirror.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:55 PM

Lee, that clown photo freaks me out. Is that its legs coming out of its head like a contortionist or it has like a weird hat on? huh
I miss the monkey pic

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:55 PM

When you first said "am I an ugly person" I was not thinking about your appearence. The hottest guy on the planet could still be ugly to me, based on his personality.


You make a very good point Jill.. I guess it just depends on ones views etc.

Jill298's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:56 PM
Yea those pics are pretty blurry ohwell

no photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:56 PM


Beauty is a relative term, it various by culture, race, age, region, country, etc etc. So what's ugly to me won't necessarily be ugly to someone else. I have three friends and every one of us defines a "hot" guy in a different way, there is never a time when we can look at one man and agree that he looks good. Therefore, asking the site if you're ugly won't do you much good, if you really want honest opinions, since many people on here are polite enough to not want to hurt anyone's feelings.

I've had many men ask me if I thought they looked good and when I told them no, they got mad. My answer to that is, if you don't really want to know, don't ask. And even if a guy does look good to me, the very fact that he was so arrogant that he asked and then thought I should validate his opinion of himself, I find that to be a turnoff.

I have no opinion of your pics, actually, so I won't answer your question, but I would like to give you some advice: if you go around defining yourself by what people think of you, you're always going to be disappointed. Think well of yourself, work with what you've got; if you have nice eyes, build on that, if you have great hair, keep it looking nice. No one made themselves, you have your parents to thank for that, so it's not really a compliment or an insult to call someone good looking or ugly, it's just rude to say the latter. Anyway, that's just JMO.

Best of luck.flowerforyou


Thank you for your advice.

drinker drinker


You're welcome.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 01/09/09 01:58 PM

Yea those pics are pretty blurry ohwell


lol and I can't do much about that part for right now, but I do plan on taking newer ones when I can.