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Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 08:52 PM Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Thu 01/08/09 08:53 PM
After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question.. Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking. Am I really an ugly person as I was told. Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date.

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Thu 01/08/09 08:57 PM
No, you are not ugly and that woman was a b!tch for judging....She is nothing but shallow that wanted to better her almost non-existant self esteem Anywho, can't wait for newer pics

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 08:58 PM
No, you are not ugly and that woman was a b!tch for judging....She is nothing but shallow that wanted to better her almost non-existant self esteem Anywho, can't wait for newer pics Thank you, for the kind words and being helpful.

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Thu 01/08/09 08:59 PM
You really shouldn't take some one's email to heart like that. Do they really know you? Or are they just lipping off... As far as pictures go... I am not sure which ones are really of you.. I would be guessing the first one and the fourth one... they are a bit blurry, but still that does not even come close to someone making a statement like that. Maybe you are not her type, but she could have said it a bit better. You just need to let your personality shine through.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Thu 01/08/09 08:59 PM
Why are you letting someone control how you feel about your self? or how you feel about your looks? Let it go. An angry person that wants to hurt you will say hurtfull things. Its that simple. And you are letting them do that by thinking about it. Ignore them.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 09:01 PM
You really shouldn't take some one's email to heart like that. Do they really know you? Or are they just lipping off... As far as pictures go... I am not sure which ones are really of you.. I would be guessing the first one and the fourth one... they are a bit blurry, but still that does not even come close to someone making a statement like that. Maybe you are not her type, but she could have said it a bit better. You just need to let your personality shine through. I'm the guy holding a championship title belt with a magazine in the back round.. that's a pic of me. No she doesn't no me.. more inless lipping off.

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Thu 01/08/09 09:02 PM
how should i know? i dont know you personally. i mean who am i or anyone else to judge your ugliness or lack of? i mean you could be an amazing person and i would hve no idea. so really.. isn't this something you should be asking yourself? don't let others dictate that answer.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 01/08/09 09:02 PM
After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question.. Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking. Am I really an ugly person as I was told. Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date. You're only as ugly as you feel.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 09:04 PM Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Thu 01/08/09 09:04 PM
Why are you letting someone control how you feel about your self? or how you feel about your looks? Let it go. An angry person that wants to hurt you will say hurtfull things. Its that simple. And you are letting them do that by thinking about it. Ignore them. First off I would like to say as I'd stated before when I first posted this topic that I was just asking a simple question and I was in no way no how letting some one else have control over me etc. Although it may have seemed like that but it's in no way not at all that way. Secondly I was just thinking about it and just thought I get some people's thoughts on it was all.

notquite00 Joined Sun 12/07/08 Posts: 405	Thu 01/08/09 09:04 PM Edited by notquite00 on Thu 01/08/09 09:05 PM
Wait, wait...you have a couple different pictures on your profile. Is this one you? http://www.smeltproductions.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/joker.jpg If so, then yeah, you're pretty ugly... But if it's that other guy, yeah you look fine. I would even venture to say that if you were in pretty good shape, you'd be smokin'!

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 09:05 PM
how should i know? i dont know you personally. i mean who am i or anyone else to judge your ugliness or lack of? i mean you could be an amazing person and i would hve no idea. so really.. isn't this something you should be asking yourself? don't let others dictate that answer. Good point.

SweetnFunny Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 687	Thu 01/08/09 09:05 PM
After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question.. Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking. Am I really an ugly person as I was told. Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date. You're only as ugly as you feel.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 09:07 PM Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Thu 01/08/09 09:10 PM
Wait, wait...you have a couple different pictures on your profile. Is this one you? http://www.smeltproductions.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/joker.jpg If so, then yeah, you're pretty ugly... But if it's that other guy, yeah you look fine. I would even venture to say that if you were in pretty good shape, you'd be smokin'! I'm in alright shape and I'm the guy who is holding a championship title with a magazine back round. On the main pic is of me. The other pics are just fakes, although I may have one more pic of my self with a basketball jersey on. Which is the only two pictures of my self. That is after re-editing some of my pictures and all.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Thu 01/08/09 09:07 PM
After getting put down by some one from justsayhi that no longer uses the site but me and her where emailing one another using are personal email accounts. Even though I have blocked her from emailing me etc. I just thought I would ask the following question.. Any way's it got me thinking and I know I'm not but it just got me thinking. Am I really an ugly person as I was told. Also I know I don't have the best viewing picture on here and hopefully around summer time or before then I will be able to up load some newer pictures that are more up to date. You're only as ugly as you feel. Yeah.. good point as well.

JulieMP Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 1249	Thu 01/08/09 11:14 PM Edited by JulieMP on Thu 01/08/09 11:15 PM
No, you are not ugly and that woman was a b!tch for judging....She is nothing but shallow that wanted to better her almost non-existant self esteem Anywho, can't wait for newer pics You are saying the woman is shallow and calling her names when you don't even know her? and Johncena you are thanking them for that? hmmm?

GeniuSxBoY Joined Sun 06/15/08 Posts: 8190	Thu 01/08/09 11:31 PM Edited by GeniuSxBoY on Thu 01/08/09 11:31 PM
You're damned if you're honest, you're damn if you're not.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Fri 01/09/09 02:22 AM Edited by Mr_Music on Fri 01/09/09 02:23 AM
I'm still trying to find out what the question is. EDIT Nevermind, I found it. I didn't spot it at first, because I saw no question marks.

mariposakc Joined Sun 11/16/08 Posts: 9614	Fri 01/09/09 02:32 AM
Not knowing what your emails contained, the comment about being ugly could be more about you as a person and not your appearance. I have used the term at times when someone has written or treated me in an offensive way.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Fri 01/09/09 12:39 PM Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Fri 01/09/09 12:42 PM
No, you are not ugly and that woman was a b!tch for judging....She is nothing but shallow that wanted to better her almost non-existant self esteem Anywho, can't wait for newer pics You are saying the woman is shallow and calling her names when you don't even know her? and Johncena you are thanking them for that? hmmm? First off I like to say I wasn't thanking them for that, I was pretty much thanking them for there feed back and kind words and maybe I should have said that more clearly. Secondly I never called her names what so ever, however I was sticking up for my self when she was calling me names. Surely I do not know her that well because of how she reacts. And last if your going to call me out you should call me by my full user name not just part of it, thank you.

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Fri 01/09/09 12:43 PM
Not knowing what your emails contained, the comment about being ugly could be more about you as a person and not your appearance. I have used the term at times when someone has written or treated me in an offensive way. I understand where you coming from on that then, however I believe and that's just me I would never call any body names.. I would just drop every thing and move on. I feel that name calling is not right and just do not have time for that kind of BS.