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Topic: Clingy
DollEyes Joined Thu 01/08/09 Posts: 22	Fri 01/09/09 01:26 PM
I suppose, but it might get old eventually. People need some space sometimes. Are we talking 24/7 clingy? I mean if I want to run to the post office and he MUST come with me.. I would be like wtf? Isn't there a game on? lol. j/k

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Fri 01/09/09 01:27 PM
could be two people are so in love they can't keep their hands off each other its very possible I'd very very possible Absolutely!

AutumnDusk Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 191	Fri 01/09/09 01:28 PM
Clingy makes me think of never having my alone time again. That is a scary thought. I love to touch and be comfortable with each while in one another's company but give me some alone time. Allowing each other to have their own space gives the relationship room to grow and the couple their breathing room so they can really enjoy their relationship.

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Fri 01/09/09 01:29 PM
Clingy makes me think of never having my alone time again. That is a scary thought. I love to touch and be comfortable with each while in one another's company but give me some alone time. Allowing each other to have their own space gives the relationship room to grow and the couple their breathing room so they can really enjoy their relationship. Here, Here!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 01/09/09 01:36 PM
Clingy makes me think of never having my alone time again. That is a scary thought. I love to touch and be comfortable with each while in one another's company but give me some alone time. Allowing each other to have their own space gives the relationship room to grow and the couple their breathing room so they can really enjoy their relationship. I see your point

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 01/09/09 04:07 PM
In a relationship, is it ok to be "clingy" if the other person is also clingy? Two people make their own rules and norms in any given relationship. If the values, goals, objectives match and they harm none - who cares. The only thing that might suffer is personal growth. To some, that's huge.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 01/09/09 04:08 PM
ironhead whats this clingy

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 01/09/09 04:08 PM
No, I want time for myself and I don't want to feel guilty for having friends and a life outside of my relationship.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 01/09/09 04:13 PM
Where are you going? who is going to be with you? what time will you be home? can I go? Hi it's me again, I figured you would have called, are you on your way here, I need you here, who's that on the phone? you didn't answer your phone , so I called all your friends

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Fri 01/09/09 04:14 PM
that sounds more paranoid than clingy

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 01/09/09 04:15 PM
Where are you going? who is going to be with you? what time will you be home? can I go? Hi it's me again, I figured you would have called, are you on your way here, I need you here, who's that on the phone? you didn't answer your phone , so I called all your friends quit being so possesive of me,gosh i'm like a prisoner with you

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 01/09/09 04:18 PM
Where are you going? who is going to be with you? what time will you be home? can I go? Hi it's me again, I figured you would have called, are you on your way here, I need you here, who's that on the phone? you didn't answer your phone , so I called all your friends Man that would totally suck! I remember I went out one night with my friends and my ex called me like 3-4 times and I didn't pick up because I was playing football. >_<

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Fri 01/09/09 04:19 PM
Where are you going? who is going to be with you? what time will you be home? can I go? Hi it's me again, I figured you would have called, are you on your way here, I need you here, who's that on the phone? you didn't answer your phone , so I called all your friends Man that would totally suck! I remember I went out one night with my friends and my ex called me like 3-4 times and I didn't pick up because I was playing football. >_< You play football at night?

Drago01 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 1311	Fri 01/09/09 04:22 PM
Sometimes Im Clingy and Sometimes Im not. Its like a teeter totter. I would imagine others find this true as well.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 01/09/09 04:25 PM
Sometimes Im Clingy and Sometimes Im not. Its like a teeter totter. I would imagine others find this true as well.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 01/09/09 04:39 PM
With certain people, they may be clingy with some and distancing with others. This could change, depending on circumstances and the time in their life. I agree, some distancers can become pursuers and vice versa, depending on personal growth and their partner. They may even flip flop roles with the same person in the same relationship over time. For these, it is the span in the distancing that becomes fixed, having to do with the couple's personal comfort level regarding intimacy, dependence, independence, and interdependence.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 01/09/09 04:41 PM
I use that spray on stuff..... nuttin clings to me..........

AutumnDusk Joined Fri 10/10/08 Posts: 191	Mon 01/12/09 02:27 PM
I will say that I don't mind public displays of affection but within reason. Casually being comfortable with each others bodies and person is a sign of love and care for the individuals you are with in your life.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 01/12/09 02:29 PM
Meet the Clingys, they can't get enough of each other

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Mon 01/12/09 02:47 PM
It would much depend on the extent of the "clingy". A bit can be okay. But, it goes a long way.