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Topic: men that cheat!
lyokia Joined Thu 01/08/09 Posts: 19	Thu 01/08/09 09:41 PM
they need to find a cure and soon!

Hardolin Joined Sun 11/30/08 Posts: 53	Thu 01/08/09 10:06 PM
Punishment? Somewhat of a rediculous way to put it. There is no punishment, if you think of it this way then you're probably part of the problem. There is no 'punishment' for cheating, there is only forgiveness. If you can't forgive them, then there is no reason to maintain a relationship (children being an exception). This doesn't mean they get a pass, so to speak, they have to earn your forgiveness. There needs to be serious consideration on both sides in order to work through something like this. To talk about the proper 'punishment' is starting from a mindset that your significant other is someone your are in charge of disciplining.

keepthehope Joined Sun 09/02/07 Posts: 4263	Thu 01/08/09 10:18 PM
In my opinion, they shouldn't get another chance. If you can't trust them, then you can't trust them. I do know there are women that have forgiven and he straightened out and never did it again, but only a few times has that ever happened that I know of.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Thu 01/08/09 10:30 PM
whats the appropriate punishment? how many times should you forgive them? Men don't cheat...they are trapped into it! Ohhhh................so my ex was trapped when he called the hookers? I was young and naive and took him back after that, but the next time I kicked his butt to the curb.

Roamer66 Joined Wed 12/24/08 Posts: 169	Fri 01/09/09 12:12 AM
whats the appropriate punishment? how many times should you forgive them? Men don't cheat...they are trapped into it! Ohhhh................so my ex was trapped when he called the hookers? I was young and naive and took him back after that, but the next time I kicked his butt to the curb. sorry it happened to you, but what I meant was that there are some people who are pushed to instanity, and others to drinking, and there are some who are pushed to cheat!

JoeW99 Joined Tue 12/30/08 Posts: 809	Fri 01/09/09 01:33 AM
How many chances? None. My opinion. You love them, you want them to change.. oh and chances are they will agree to change. A person saying they are going to change should finish the sentence by saying "for a month". Cut it off. And a body part as well if he getts lippy as you kick him out the door. like i said My opinion.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 01/09/09 01:38 AM
whats the appropriate punishment? how many times should you forgive them? ???? iS THIS a real question???? Seriously......please scrape your self esteem off of the pavement and say "See ya"!!!!

yaya28 Joined Fri 01/25/08 Posts: 1341	Fri 01/09/09 01:38 AM
I agree, his punishment is not having you in his life anymore.

GeniuSxBoY Joined Sun 06/15/08 Posts: 8190	Fri 01/09/09 01:41 AM
whats the appropriate punishment? how many times should you forgive them? ???? iS THIS a real question???? Seriously......please scrape your self esteem off of the pavement and say "See ya"!!!! Where's the common sense obituary thread? We definitely need to bump it for the OP.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Fri 01/09/09 01:44 AM Edited by Mr_Music on Fri 01/09/09 01:44 AM
it doesn't matter the gender some ass kicking is in the works If gender didn't matter, you wouldn't have titled this thread, "MEN that cheat". Sends up a crimson flag for me.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Fri 01/09/09 02:14 AM
Where's the common sense obituary thread? We definitely need to bump it for the OP. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/194627

sloughr1 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 225	Fri 01/09/09 02:16 AM
Never did it, so I don't know why you would.