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Topic: relationship, marriage ... ?
monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 07:59 PM
well why do we wanna get there? what is holding us back?

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 01/08/09 08:01 PM
my sanity???

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 08:04 PM
is it sanity? or insanity? what have u tried? :)

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 01/08/09 08:04 PM
is it sanity? or insanity? what have u tried? :) I was married for 10yrs

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 08:06 PM
and , after 10 years what happened?

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 01/08/09 08:07 PM
and , after 10 years what happened? I got divorced and got my sanity back

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 08:08 PM
for how long have u been separated?

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Thu 01/08/09 08:09 PM
well why do we wanna get there? what is holding us back? being lonely, fear of the unknown.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 01/08/09 08:09 PM
for how long have u been separated? 8 years

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Thu 01/08/09 08:10 PM
is it sanity? or insanity? what have u tried? :) I was married for 10yrs Wasnt any part of those 10 years good? I was married for 26 years, it was only the last couple of years when he was cheating that was bad. I would do the marriage thing again, despite the lies and abuse. I figure its like this, I dont lie, cheat, or abuse alcohol, so there has to be one other male person out there that would like to spend the rest of his days with a fantastic person like me.

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 08:10 PM
ha ha ha, no kidding. what would u do differently.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 01/08/09 08:12 PM
is it sanity? or insanity? what have u tried? :) I was married for 10yrs Wasnt any part of those 10 years good? I was married for 26 years, it was only the last couple of years when he was cheating that was bad. I would do the marriage thing again, despite the lies and abuse. I figure its like this, I dont lie, cheat, or abuse alcohol, so there has to be one other male person out there that would like to spend the rest of his days with a fantastic person like me. nope...put that ring on and the game was over

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Thu 01/08/09 08:12 PM
ha ha ha, no kidding. what would u do differently. If you are asking me, I wouldnt marry a person that abuses alcohol.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Thu 01/08/09 08:13 PM
After you get older you do everything differently.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Thu 01/08/09 08:13 PM
is it sanity? or insanity? what have u tried? :) I was married for 10yrs Wasnt any part of those 10 years good? I was married for 26 years, it was only the last couple of years when he was cheating that was bad. I would do the marriage thing again, despite the lies and abuse. I figure its like this, I dont lie, cheat, or abuse alcohol, so there has to be one other male person out there that would like to spend the rest of his days with a fantastic person like me. nope...put that ring on and the game was over I am sorry to hear that.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 01/08/09 08:13 PM
Marriage, never again!!

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Thu 01/08/09 08:15 PM
I would if I found the right one.

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 08:15 PM
i'd take yes being lonely and fear to the unknown, but I won't live thru cheating or being abused verbally, or mentally or physically

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 01/08/09 08:15 PM
is it sanity? or insanity? what have u tried? :) I was married for 10yrs Wasnt any part of those 10 years good? I was married for 26 years, it was only the last couple of years when he was cheating that was bad. I would do the marriage thing again, despite the lies and abuse. I figure its like this, I dont lie, cheat, or abuse alcohol, so there has to be one other male person out there that would like to spend the rest of his days with a fantastic person like me. How do you emotionally recover after being with someone for 26 years and then get divorced? My hat goes off to you

monica_yhuri Joined Thu 12/18/08 Posts: 91	Thu 01/08/09 08:20 PM
wow 26 is a lifetime