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Topic: how long do you wait....
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Wed 01/07/09 12:57 PM
Don't listen to others listen to your heart and to your kids only all of you can know when it's time.

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Wed 01/07/09 12:58 PM
Lol... look where his heart has gotten him noway



do you still trust the decisions of your heart? Use your brain instead :tongue:

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Wed 01/07/09 01:05 PM

Lol... look where his heart has gotten him noway



do you still trust the decisions of your heart? Use your brain instead :tongue:


Who says it wasn't his brain that brought him there.

Brain and heart make wrong decisions but your heart feels and your brain thinks, use your heart to know if she might be the one and to see if your kids are ready to meet her, with the brain if you think enough you will always find a reason not to.

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Wed 01/07/09 01:06 PM

Do you want your kids to get attached to someone who isn't going to be around? Imagine the hurt and loss and trust issues....



i made that mistake...bad deal all the way around

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Wed 01/07/09 01:07 PM


Lol... look where his heart has gotten him noway



do you still trust the decisions of your heart? Use your brain instead :tongue:


Who says it wasn't his brain that brought him there.

Brain and heart make wrong decisions but your heart feels and your brain thinks, use your heart to know if she might be the one and to see if your kids are ready to meet her, with the brain if you think enough you will always find a reason not to.



To each his own drinker

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Wed 01/07/09 01:15 PM
genious boy ---
one thought for you if you ever marry
PRE-NUP

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Wed 01/07/09 01:16 PM
and dont marry in a no fault state because your spouce can do every wrong under the sun and its means nothing in the courts eye

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Wed 01/07/09 02:22 PM
Date when you feel ready,not when others say you should.Remember you have to have time to mourn your relationship.Introduction to kids,if serious, one year. It`s worth the wait. Messes with the kid`s minds less and they aren`t swamped with temporary aunts.

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Wed 01/07/09 02:22 PM

I'm never getting married noway noway


eff that.


Never is a long time Handsome. And you are young yet. When it's good, it's very good.:smile:

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Wed 01/07/09 02:27 PM
You can date someone for quite awhile before they have to meet your kids. If your relationship ended before you actually got divorced, then date when you feel comfortable with it. Some people can get over a broken relationship rather quickly and some can't. If you start dating and have not gotten over your previous relationship, you are on the rebound. Under that circumstance, do not expect a new relationship to develop.

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