Topic: How do you handle your first argument?
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Mon 01/05/09 08:29 PM
Let's say it's been a couple of months dating, but finally and inevitably it happens. Your first argument.

What did you do? Did you break up? Who asked to break up?
How long did it take to cool? What was the end result?



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Mon 01/05/09 08:33 PM
I'm not in a relationship now, but for anyone else I would suggest cooling off first before you do anything stupid.

Then, after the cooling off period, you can make rational decisions like which tire to slash first, which window to bust out first, etc...:wink:

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Mon 01/05/09 08:35 PM
Are the F-bombs allowed for your first argument?


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Mon 01/05/09 08:35 PM
Breaking up over one argument? No. You cool off a little. Then have hot makeup sex.

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Mon 01/05/09 08:40 PM
best t let partners know i care too much to argue in heat of moment, let them know you are walking away to think calmly. When angry everything is exagerated.

Beside its good to make clear you dont wont tolerate escalation, which can lead to horrible pain.

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Mon 01/05/09 08:42 PM
not direct f-bombs, you dont wajt to open door to disrespect.

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Mon 01/05/09 08:43 PM

Let's say it's been a couple of months dating, but finally and inevitably it happens. Your first argument.

What did you do? Did you break up? Who asked to break up?
How long did it take to cool? What was the end result?



:smile: I generally refuse to argue back the first few times the woman tries to argue with me.:smile:

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Mon 01/05/09 08:49 PM
For some reason, I feel an argument is healthy in a relationship. Too much on the other hand isn't. I'd say cool off from the argument and get your mind straight. That will allow you to view both sides of the issue. You can also know your partner better in that predicament. Dropping the F-bomb is childish and immature. Very unnecessary in an argument.

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Mon 01/05/09 08:53 PM

Breaking up over one argument? No. You cool off a little. Then have hot makeup sex.
love :heart: love

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Mon 01/05/09 08:56 PM
ive never really had much of fights with girlfriends before. im the kind of person who is very very easygoing and can handle conflict without it becomming a full out argument most of the time. i simply make use of what most people joke about. curl up, assume the fetal position, and admit im wrong while telling the woman she is 100 percent right! laugh happy

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Mon 01/05/09 09:00 PM

ive never really had much of fights with girlfriends before. im the kind of person who is very very easygoing and can handle conflict without it becomming a full out argument most of the time. i simply make use of what most people joke about. curl up, assume the fetal position, and admit im wrong while telling the woman she is 100 percent right! laugh happy


Now there's a man worth marrying!! laugh

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Mon 01/05/09 09:07 PM

ive never really had much of fights with girlfriends before. im the kind of person who is very very easygoing and can handle conflict without it becomming a full out argument most of the time. i simply make use of what most people joke about. curl up, assume the fetal position, and admit im wrong while telling the woman she is 100 percent right! laugh happy


wow, what a great one sided compromise.

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Mon 01/05/09 09:15 PM

Let's say it's been a couple of months dating, but finally and inevitably it happens. Your first argument.

What did you do? Did you break up? Who asked to break up?
How long did it take to cool? What was the end result?





Depends, am I looking for a reason to leave? What happened to cause the argument?

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Mon 01/05/09 10:28 PM


ive never really had much of fights with girlfriends before. im the kind of person who is very very easygoing and can handle conflict without it becomming a full out argument most of the time. i simply make use of what most people joke about. curl up, assume the fetal position, and admit im wrong while telling the woman she is 100 percent right! laugh happy


Now there's a man worth marrying!! laugh

Right after nuetering first....lmao, j/k