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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them...
The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type***  |
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im being honest when i say this, i have no freakin clue, i dont think well ever know, but i do know what your talking about, and it sucks i know it does.
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! 
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If those guys are that stupid...what are ya gonna do??? Guys say alot of stuff...but most of it is BS
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I don't get it either! I pay my bills and take care of myself and my son. Yet, I see guys hooking up with gals that don't have a job, education, etc. I would like to know why also!
Is it because they are 'easy'? Or that they are ready and willing anytime you want them? Or because they fawn over you like you are the best thing since PB&J? |
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Your friends may feel that settling for these types of companions beats the alternative of being alone and really working on finding the person that is more compatible and self supporting. Some people really can not handle being alone at all.
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Alot of guys say that stuff but they want control...and they can't have control with a successful woman
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I did this several times myself, when I was younger and quite a bit stupider.
The basic impetus behind it was that I've always had something of a "rescuer" complex, and it felt good to have someone to take care of. Of course, it always degenerated into a "user" situation and ended badly -- or I would end up fixing her problems and she would decide she didn't need that particular arrangement anymore (although, in all honesty, they did tend to come back every time they had subsequent problems in life). I've learned a little since then (hopefully) and won't be making that same mistake in the future. |
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Alot of guys say that stuff but they want control...and they can't have control with a successful woman Interesting point... |
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I don't get it either! I pay my bills and take care of myself and my son. Yet, I see guys hooking up with gals that don't have a job, education, etc. I would like to know why also! Is it because they are 'easy'? Or that they are ready and willing anytime you want them? Or because they fawn over you like you are the best thing since PB&J? Hey Tanya... Maybe you are right... these girls are all about completing them big time and googoogagaing over these guys it is sick.. my friends are cute and nice and super fun but hello.. they aren't like these girls make them out to be... 
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! I'm thinking it's not the power of the pen*s but of the vjayjay.. just sayin'... |
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** thats funny... i have the exact same outlook only with girls. |
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! I'm thinking it's not the power of the pen*s but of the vjayjay.. just sayin'... not really, guys have too heads, one that says all the right things and the other that does all the wrong things, guess which one is which now! 
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Alot of guys say that stuff but they want control...and they can't have control with a successful woman Eek, might have to side with Etrain on this one too. Grr, bummer... maybe I should act like a little crack hoe too Ha ha! |
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! I'm thinking it's not the power of the pen*s but of the vjayjay.. just sayin'... not really, guys have too heads, one that says all the right things and the other that does all the wrong things, guess which one is which now! Don't think us women don't have two heads... we all started out the same... please remember our clitoris is a remnant of our little penis head when in the womb... 
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I hate so sound so typical... but they must be great in the sack. Otherwise I'd kick em' to the curb. Sometimes it's hard to let go of someone who knows how to handle a man in the bedroom.
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! I'm thinking it's not the power of the pen*s but of the vjayjay.. just sayin'... not really, guys have too heads, one that says all the right things and the other that does all the wrong things, guess which one is which now! I don't disagree with you but tell me what about a woman is going to make some men give away hard earned cash? Just to have arm candy? I think not... |
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! I'm thinking it's not the power of the pen*s but of the vjayjay.. just sayin'... not really, guys have too heads, one that says all the right things and the other that does all the wrong things, guess which one is which now! Don't think us women don't have two heads... we all started out the same... please remember our clitoris is a remnant of our little penis head when in the womb... Right and Justin has a good point as well... |
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I have some male friends that coincidentally just happen to all be dating or shagging up w/ women who have nothing going for them, have no jobs, er and just appear to be using them... The guys take care of them, letting them take their money to use on who knows what.. Men talk about wanting someone with brains, smarts, good jobs, not so needy, blah blah blah, and yadda yadda yadda. So why do they date the opposite? I just hate to see ANYBODY being taken advantage of, like this, but of course you can't say anything. Believe me I have, and them being men still don't see what I am talking about. I'm just trying to understand why. Can you help me? ***And before you may think that I'm jealous because I'm interested in them, I'm not, we are honestly friends and not each other's type*** you must not know the power of the penis! I'm thinking it's not the power of the pen*s but of the vjayjay.. just sayin'... not really, guys have too heads, one that says all the right things and the other that does all the wrong things, guess which one is which now! Don't think us women don't have two heads... we all started out the same... please remember our clitoris is a remnant of our little penis head when in the womb... Yes, but it can never take control over you, unlike the powerful penis! *footnote* I just like saying penis...lol
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I hate so sound so typical... but they must be great in the sack. Otherwise I'd kick em' to the curb. Sometimes it's hard to let go of someone who knows how to handle a man in the bedroom. So basically a lot of men still have that ME MAN YOU WOMAN WE SCREW attitude, right? |
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