I have never heard that one in my life. LOL

So it would seem....lmao

None. I had too many other real life things to fear.

Not exactly sure how it works. I assume they are programmed to look for certain key words and go from there.

Sleep well.

I guess fearandloathing went back to his hole.Hopefully that wound was his heart breaking.

Fear is a really good guy.

I would love to see him find someone.

I have a question guys...I met this guy in a site and he seemed very nice , then time went by and he told me he needed me to help him out finding a job and a place to live.Furthurmore...he never looked for a job or Changed his ways .he never does nothing except for leave he goes into mental hospitals all the time .Hes been doing this for over 1 year now and then he calls me or come back and tells me he loves me and hes going to change... I need some help with this here .Why do you all think hes doing this over and over again.I need some serious help here as much as I can get.I just dont understand him at all.well, hope someone answers..y'all take care

Oh my God I just read my last post you guys must think I am such a bi**h I meant to say I hope that wound wasn't fear and loathings heart breaking .......so so embarassed I would never have intentionally put someone down.Please except my apology F and l.

JAG

I finally have my car fixed after months and months, what should I do tonite?

No worries, like I said in the e-mail...I just post questions to keep JAG on his toes lol.

Someone once said "we do what we know".And for him he is either stuck or maybe because of the mental illness he can't or won't change and you being the kind person you are you are getting run over.If it is not you it will be someone else.You didn't say how you feel about this guy.I feel that his behavior probably won't chage so you need to change how you respond to him.good luck to you. just my opinion.

This statement, right here, answers your question.

He keeps doing the same things over and over and over because every time he calls you and says just the right things, you believe him. He does it because you allow it. He swears he is going to change, but never does, because you keep taking him back and he really doesn't HAVE to change. He's at the point that, he knows that every time he calls, you will be right there waiting for him.

This may sound harsh, but after dealing with this for over a year, it's well past time for you to wake up.

Stay home and rest easy because you know it's fixed??? lol

Nahhh...I would suggest just getting out of the house. Go treat yourself at a restaurant or something. Or just go to the store and get some ice cream.

Ya know what?? I can think of a lot WORSE wounds than having your heart broken.

I figured you were meaning something more along those lines.

Besides. I don't think Fear would actually pour salt into a broken heart...lol

Don't put it past me!

Animallover jag is so right it is time to move on.
I got caught up in a merry -go-round relationship that was going nowhere it was all about control and me having none.It was eating at me and a friend pointed out to me that I was the only one who could stop the dance by changing the steps.I am so thankful because my life is so much happier with out that heartache.

Yep. What she said.

Thanks jag,it is just to bad that it took me so long to see that, and that I deserve better I am worth it and am nobodys doormat.

I can relate.

It took me a VERY long time, and a 4 year period of being single, to realize that I actually am a pretty good guy and that there is no reason for me to settle for someone that isn't what I am looking for.

I did that in my previous relationships. Won't be doing it again.