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luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Thu 01/01/09 07:06 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I don't ask a question I don't already know the answer to. I guess I am way to deliberate.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 07:08 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I don't ask a question I don't already know the answer to. I guess I am way to deliberate. so there is a fear of rejection? what if u expected to hear yes... and they said no ask again when things are better?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/01/09 07:10 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? Never asked a girl to marry me. A dude then? Or another chimp? Will you marry me?

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Thu 01/01/09 07:14 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I don't ask a question I don't already know the answer to. I guess I am way to deliberate. so there is a fear of rejection? what if u expected to hear yes... and they said no ask again when things are better? I really dont know, I would have had the conversation with her alot before I asked and the only way I ask is if I already know the answer is yes. If she was going to say no it would have come up in the conversations earlier. My ex-wife wasnt ready when we first started talking about marriage, so I didn't ask until I knew she was ready.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 07:19 PM Edited by buttons on Thu 01/01/09 07:20 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I don't ask a question I don't already know the answer to. I guess I am way to deliberate. so there is a fear of rejection? what if u expected to hear yes... and they said no ask again when things are better? t time? I really dont know, I would have had the conversation with her alot before I asked and the only way I ask is if I already know the answer is yes. If she was going to say no it would have come up in the conversations earlier. My ex-wife wasnt ready when we first started talking about marriage, so I didn't ask until I knew she was ready. ok i agree im sure there is lots of conversations prehand.... but when the question was popped... there was arguing and that was used it the asking.... so we dont argue like this if we were engauaged perhaps we would deal with this better then if she said no... the timing isnt right would you ask again? or if arguing with the one you want to marry would you even of asked at that time?

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 07:48 PM
i once had a guy put a tatoo of my name on his chest when we were fighting.... is this just my destiny?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 01/01/09 08:04 PM
i once had a guy put a tatoo of my name on his chest when we were fighting.... is this just my destiny?

Averageguy1964 Joined Fri 12/05/08 Posts: 1710	Thu 01/01/09 08:08 PM
I learned the first time,Ask once,if no LEAVE

twofotey Joined Sat 11/22/08 Posts: 100	Thu 01/01/09 08:18 PM
Asking someone to marry you is "romantic" in actuality we are asking this person to sign a leagaly binding contract in wich they are to make certain promises that would obligate them for the rest of their life till DEATH do them part. It would be a good sign if the girl who was asked would want to think about it first because that way if the answer came back yes at least it was a well thought out yes.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 08:25 PM
i agree its supposed to be romantic... but its not romantic when you are seperated lol..... and the words with it are.. its so we have to deal with these things.....to mee thats getting engauged for all the wrong reasons.... and if you love them you offer to give another chance to do it when things are doing well lol

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Thu 01/01/09 08:29 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I don't ask a question I don't already know the answer to. I guess I am way to deliberate. so there is a fear of rejection? what if u expected to hear yes... and they said no ask again when things are better? t time? I really dont know, I would have had the conversation with her alot before I asked and the only way I ask is if I already know the answer is yes. If she was going to say no it would have come up in the conversations earlier. My ex-wife wasnt ready when we first started talking about marriage, so I didn't ask until I knew she was ready. ok i agree im sure there is lots of conversations prehand.... but when the question was popped... there was arguing and that was used it the asking.... so we dont argue like this if we were engauaged perhaps we would deal with this better then if she said no... the timing isnt right would you ask again? or if arguing with the one you want to marry would you even of asked at that time? Ok I most likely wouldn't have asked at the time, but if she said no I might but it would take a very long time before I made that descision.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 08:33 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I don't ask a question I don't already know the answer to. I guess I am way to deliberate. so there is a fear of rejection? what if u expected to hear yes... and they said no ask again when things are better? t time? I really dont know, I would have had the conversation with her alot before I asked and the only way I ask is if I already know the answer is yes. If she was going to say no it would have come up in the conversations earlier. My ex-wife wasnt ready when we first started talking about marriage, so I didn't ask until I knew she was ready. ok i agree im sure there is lots of conversations prehand.... but when the question was popped... there was arguing and that was used it the asking.... so we dont argue like this if we were engauaged perhaps we would deal with this better then if she said no... the timing isnt right would you ask again? or if arguing with the one you want to marry would you even of asked at that time? Ok I most likely wouldn't have asked at the time, but if she said no I might but it would take a very long time before I made that descision. percisely for saying the timing is wrong and explained why lol

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 08:34 PM
and thanks for the replys

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Thu 01/01/09 08:47 PM
and thanks for the replys For you anytime!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 08:58 PM
and thanks for the replys For you anytime! im thinking... oneluckygal to have a man to put thought into something like you do!

luckyguy2008 Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 492	Thu 01/01/09 09:02 PM
and thanks for the replys For you anytime! im thinking... oneluckygal to have a man to put thought into something like you do! Thank you I try to help.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 01/01/09 09:05 PM Edited by Unknow on Thu 01/01/09 09:05 PM
I'd doubt I'll ever be asking that question again. However, if our relationship got to the point where I would ask and she said no I would not ask again.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 09:06 PM
ya did ty so much...even though u are young i listened... and learned something!!! got a good head on your shoulders

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 01/01/09 09:07 PM
and thanks for the replys For you anytime! im thinking... oneluckygal to have a man to put thought into something like you do! Thank you I try to help. and most guys dont hear the whole thing you must be a good listner

Blaze1978 Joined Tue 03/25/08 Posts: 1281	Thu 01/01/09 09:08 PM
have you ever asked someone to marry you and she replies the time just isnt right< perhaps not getting along so well, too soon, or something in the way that one wants to take care of first> would you ever ask them to marry you again? or is it just over with? perhaps the feeling of rejection overwhelmed you? I would completely understand.