Topic: rings and such
SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:21 PM
Mom always told me I am single till there is a ring on my finger...

Does anyone else believe that as well? what

TJN's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:22 PM
I wear rings
and I'm single
what does that mean

Moondark's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:23 PM
well, is sounds like she is saying that you can date other people until you get the ring. I think you have to decide to be exclusive long before getting to that stage. How can you have that kind of commitment to actually get to that stage if you are seeing more than one person?

catwoman96's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:23 PM
yepp...and so does H&R block

no photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:25 PM
rofl rofl rofl

yepp...and so does H&R block
scared scared scared

Peccy's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:26 PM
Edited by Peccy on Tue 12/30/08 09:28 PM
Angel and I have decided not to get married, but that doesn't mean we're not in each others hearts. We respect each other too much for either of us to cheat.

ADDNOTE: well said Moondark

catwoman96's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:27 PM
BUT.....just because im single............doesnt mean im unfaithful to the man i love.

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:28 PM
IDK maybe she is hoping i don't end up settling or something either... keep options open?

by no means is she telling me to go around dating a whole football team or anything.. ha ha.. well i hope not.. hmmm

no photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:29 PM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Tue 12/30/08 09:29 PM
ya my mom used to tell me to play the field too!!!

I was wondering if that means the entire football, hockey or soccer team???devil :wink: laugh

TJN's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:30 PM
Kinda what Moondark said if your are in a relationship with someone are you really single

CaliGamer85's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:30 PM
I don't necessarily want a ring from the guy I choose to be with, does that mean that I will be single til the day I die even though we may live together for decades, share a bank account, and maybe even have kids together? I may be taking your mom's words a bit too literally, but I think that America puts too much emphasis on the physical aspects of a ring rather than the symbolic nature of this token.

_Amanda_'s photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:32 PM
Maby she ment all three!!! laugh

Totage's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:33 PM

Mom always told me I am single till there is a ring on my finger...

Does anyone else believe that as well? what


No sometimes singles wear a ring so they don't get hit on when they go out.

no photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:33 PM

Maby she ment all three!!! laugh
I would also like to add the baseball team since I like that sport the most!!!bigsmile

drew1on79's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:34 PM
i love rings but how much would you pay for the right ring??

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:35 PM
I understand the whole thing about not wanting to marry or what not but I am speaking theoretically by what my own mother said... the symbolism of the ring I suppose...

_Amanda_'s photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:37 PM


Mom always told me I am single till there is a ring on my finger...

Does anyone else believe that as well? what


No sometimes singles wear a ring so they don't get hit on when they go out.


I tried that...only it ended up seeming more like a magnet drawing the guys twards me...hmm...maby i should try that again slaphead

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:41 PM
When I was engaged... I was swatting men off like crazy... was ridiculous... how mindless and disrespectful some dudes are!!


All about wanting what you can't have I suppose

no photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:45 PM
<---puts on wedding rings now!!!devil laugh

Actually Ive found that too, when wearing my rings guys were really into me. Hmmmmmmmmmm.....the taboo of it all!!!devil laugh

TJN's photo
Tue 12/30/08 09:51 PM

When I was engaged... I was swatting men off like crazy... was ridiculous... how mindless and disrespectful some dudes are!!


All about wanting what you can't have I suppose

When I was still married it seemed that more women noticed me
I think might have to do with if someone can get you there is no fear of any commitment