Topic: Verbal Abuse
IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 12/29/08 03:15 PM

women are known to verbally abuse as well.



The intent was "anyone" not directed at a specific gender...

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 12/29/08 03:17 PM
Put up with it from a few different women.

Since it was illegal to slit their throats, I just left.

lizwakl01's photo
Mon 12/29/08 03:17 PM
I was also in a abuse relationship until I left it. It took to much out of me. It took a lot to be who I am right now. My self exteem was to low but I survived.

So, I say no I don't forqive anybody who is abusive (verbal or physical).

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/29/08 03:18 PM


women are known to verbally abuse as well.



The intent was "anyone" not directed at a specific gender...
flowerforyou Thats rightflowerforyou

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Mon 12/29/08 03:19 PM

:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:


I've forgiven, but I have no respect for anyone who abuses another in any way and when I allowed it to be done to me, I lost respect for myself also...so forgive, yes, allow it again, NO!

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 12/29/08 03:24 PM


:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:


I've forgiven, but I have no respect for anyone who abuses another in any way and when I allowed it to be done to me, I lost respect for myself also...so forgive, yes, allow it again, NO!
flowerforyou wise decisionflowerforyou

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Mon 12/29/08 03:25 PM
I didnt know you knew my boss Mirror, I just give it right backgrumble

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Mon 12/29/08 03:47 PM
Shut the fukc up! You little loser...you will never amount to anything......mad mad mad mad

I'm sorry will you forgive me???? flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:

evian001's photo
Mon 12/29/08 04:00 PM

Shut the fukc up! You little loser...you will never amount to anything......mad mad mad mad

I'm sorry will you forgive me???? flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

oh no if they say it in the same breath...thats definatly a NO..laugh

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Mon 12/29/08 04:19 PM


Shut the fukc up! You little loser...you will never amount to anything......mad mad mad mad

I'm sorry will you forgive me???? flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

oh no if they say it in the same breath...thats definatly a NO..laugh


Hey don't discriminate just because he/she has a terrett syndrome. laugh

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 12/29/08 04:53 PM

:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:


In my professional life this is common and I don't take it personally.

In my private life I have been verbally as well as physically abused. I believe the verbal took a lot longer to heal from than the broken bones. I also have forgiven them sure since I refuse to let something like that fester in me and gain any control of my life. Now I will not tolerate it period if and when the boundaries are crossed they get only one warning then I remove myself from the situation and I don't go back.

SweetnFunny's photo
Mon 12/29/08 04:56 PM

:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:


Yes, I could and did.
:smile:

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Tue 12/30/08 04:37 AM

:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:

I have. There's a fine line between verbal and psychological/emotional abuse.

I'm not sure I should have forgiven; and, certainly NOT forgotten.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 03/24/09 05:55 PM


:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:

I have. There's a fine line between verbal and psychological/emotional abuse.

I'm not sure I should have forgiven; and, certainly NOT forgotten.
flowerforyou

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Tue 03/24/09 05:58 PM
I have before. I won't in the future.

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Tue 03/24/09 05:59 PM
noway ... Just say NO to whack crack!

Duffy's photo
Tue 03/24/09 06:02 PM
verbal abuse is a cycle...
violence is a cycle...
go to your local YMCA and take a class.
it will arm you and teach u how to defend yourself...it gives you power...flowerforyou flowers

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Tue 03/24/09 06:03 PM

:smile: Could you forgive someone who was verbally abusive to you?:smile:

:smile: Have you ever?:smile:


Not really as that's typically an indication of something more serious, including domestic violence and other forms of physical violence.

And no- I haven't forgiven anybody for partaking in such shenanigans.

feistybaby's photo
Tue 03/24/09 06:07 PM
For me this is a big no, never again, bruises heal memories you never lose~

ReddBeans's photo
Tue 03/24/09 06:08 PM
I put up with verbal abuse for 10 yrs by my exhusband. I finally got a divorce. I will no longer tolerate that kind of behavior from any man. Either fight fair or I walk. And yes, there is a way to fight and do it fairly. Have I forgiven? I've forgiven and moved on. shades