now we are getting somewhere, so you are saying that women like to argue

You didn't read that very well.

Hmmm this could get interesting....

I did, I just wanted to turn it around

Financial security and wonderful sex.

There's more. Best friend, companion, etc.

If a Man was honest would say the same thing.

Well,partly true in what u said..but ending wth d wrong guy...thats when I wish sm1 could smack me!

smack

I may not know everything I want but I damn sure know what I don't want. I know for me there has to be 4 vital things
Respect
Honesty
Trust
Integrity..

Those will start the conversation rolling.
An honorable man has a lot of plus's, I have always said a man that can make me laugh, cry, and stimulate my mind has a shot.

My guess is the OP will say that's too generic .

He might but then I am curious what does the OP want in a relationship...

I know what they want, they want to play mind games with you until you figure out what they want. thats why they end the arguement with "you just don't get it".
they like to take things that need no logic, twist it around into a collosal waste of time. then get mad at you if you don't see the effort she made.

I want someone who cares and remembers!

Hit it on the head!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Listen, sure they want a nice guy, but not a push-over. You are probably too "people pleasing", needy and/or desperate. I am not saying that you should be a jerk, I am almost a complete goofball myself, they want a Man not a Baby. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but I hope you get the message; next time you go out on the town, go out with a sense of plenty, not a sense of urgency. BTW, what are you looking for: staring down the barrel of a thirty year mortgage for an ungrateful, demanding, spiteful woman with hyper-active children on Ritalin, a lazy, unemployed alcohol brother-in-law? Oh sorry, that was my marriage! LOL! Just have some fun, people like to be around happy people having fun.

I'm taking notes

you ladys just proved my point. thank you.



P.S."wind it up and let it go!"

First off I think the statement is too generic. Its kind of like all the boxes these sites make you fill out in yopur profile. I think people either click or they dont. You cannot find out anything about anyone online. People can completely lie about themselves here. I think women are more guarded in the online world than the real one just because of the douchebaggy things that most guys send in their emails. Lets face it as we get older dating becomes more difficult because the more you date and the more relationships that fail give you a better idea of what it is you do want out of a relationship which further narrows the playing field. To ask what women want is kind of a dumb question and Im sure it was out of some frustration that you posted this. In the end we all want the same thing. We all want someone who gets us completely, accepts us for all we are or aren't, and someone who loves us unconditionally and gets the same in return.