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Topic: Roadblocks
Jhavez's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:43 AM
The "hot girl" or "hot guy". Hmmm? Maybe they are not very smart. Maybe they are mean as hell. Maybe they are not loyal. Maybe they always spend more than they make. Maybe their personality sucks.

Maybe they do not look so "hot" afterall.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:46 AM



I could sit here and say yes and pretend its okay. But honestly, I really miss having someone special in my life. But since I cannot rush a relationship and learned to NOT jump into anything too quickly I'll just be happy and content being single, for now anyway.


That's what I am doing, too. flowerforyou

flowerforyou And a comment to your other reply, no need to get depressed. Just be patient and your soulmate will come along.


Thanks. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

njmom05's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:47 AM




I could sit here and say yes and pretend its okay. But honestly, I really miss having someone special in my life. But since I cannot rush a relationship and learned to NOT jump into anything too quickly I'll just be happy and content being single, for now anyway.


That's what I am doing, too. flowerforyou

flowerforyou And a comment to your other reply, no need to get depressed. Just be patient and your soulmate will come along.


Thanks. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:56 AM



Oh ya .. and as to looks? Again .. *sigh* I'm thinkin it's a KNOWN FACT guys are the more visually driven gender.

They have this "hot woman" image they are looking for when they are balding, pot bellied and old enough looking to be the woman's father.

Ya. so....huh :wink:



I have seen that argument around here on multiple occasions.

Perhaps men ARE more visually driven.

But ya know what? I simply do not believe that 99.99999999% of women will EVER take the time to get to know someone that they are not attracted to. I am not referring to a friendship. I am referring to relationship/marriage potential.

What would be the point?

By the way..I AM bald, I HAVE a pot belly. Whether or not I look old enough to be some woman's father is up for debate.

Are you telling me that you aren't at all picky in who you date?? Some random ugly dude works just fine for you??



It's not about being "picky" .. it's, for me, ALL about chemistry.

A guy can be hot as hell, (and I've been hit up by a great share of them) and if I don't sense connection .. I'm not goin further. Period.

But, I find I am never attracted to big 'mountain' type men either.




But that's my point. There has to be an attraction of some sort. So looks, no matter how much people want to deny it, does play a part. For some, it plays a bigger part than it does for others. But it always plays SOME part.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:57 AM



Meh. Family history sys I'll probably be dead before I turn 55 anyway...lol


You drive me crazy with your pessimism! I know, I know, I have told you before, but I'm telling you again. Knock it off!!! It is your biggest fault. You are not ugly, no one cares how much or how little money you make. You don't find someone because you truly believe that you won't! And, don't tell me it's not true or I will reach through this computer and smack you.

I only say all this in love. :heart: :wink: laugh


Love you too, mom....lmao

RacerMatt's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:58 AM
Having such a high sex drive has always been a roadblock. They seem to find out they just can't keep up. smokin

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 12/27/08 11:02 AM




Meh. Family history sys I'll probably be dead before I turn 55 anyway...lol


You drive me crazy with your pessimism! I know, I know, I have told you before, but I'm telling you again. Knock it off!!! It is your biggest fault. You are not ugly, no one cares how much or how little money you make. You don't find someone because you truly believe that you won't! And, don't tell me it's not true or I will reach through this computer and smack you.

I only say all this in love. :heart: :wink: laugh


Love you too, mom....lmao


smooched

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 12/27/08 11:03 AM

Having such a high sex drive has always been a roadblock. They seem to find out they just can't keep up. smokin


That is the saddest thing I have ever heard. You poor, poor man. :wink: laugh flowerforyou

RacerMatt's photo
Sat 12/27/08 11:39 AM


Having such a high sex drive has always been a roadblock. They seem to find out they just can't keep up. smokin


That is the saddest thing I have ever heard. You poor, poor man. :wink: laugh flowerforyou


Well we all have our crosses to bear laugh

RKISIT's photo
Sat 12/27/08 11:41 AM
Edited by RKISIT on Sat 12/27/08 11:43 AM

What is something about you that tends to be a roadblock for others wanting to date you? Children? Occupation? Illness or disability? Or something else?
i am very to the point:smile:

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 12/27/08 12:00 PM


What is something about you that tends to be a roadblock for others wanting to date you? Children? Occupation? Illness or disability? Or something else?
i am very to the point:smile:


That's probably a good thing.

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