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Topic: OMG!! I do believe I am single....
JayLy's photo
Fri 12/26/08 10:44 PM
This is most likely the first stages of shock. No biggy...just 5 yrs to the wind. It could be worse. It could be 6 years to drinker the wind!! ha ha seee ya!!

misstina2's photo
Fri 12/26/08 10:46 PM
flowerforyou welcomeflowerforyou

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Fri 12/26/08 10:48 PM
waving have fun

JayLy's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:52 PM
welcome to what I'm afraid to ask!? I have not been single in years! ahhh

JayLy's photo
Fri 12/26/08 11:53 PM
thaaannnkkkss.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:38 AM
Hehehe try 17 years of it then you will realize your really single lol

Hey it is really not all that bad once you realize you control your own life now and can do what ever you wish at any given moment.bigsmile :thumbsup:

Evan_O's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:43 AM
Welcome to the singles pool!

JayLy's photo
Sat 12/27/08 12:59 PM
Thanks for that positive point of view. I think right now I'm at the big state of failure. "I coulda, shoulda, woulda..." Plus, I have the terrific thoughts of someone else having played a part. IDK.

krupa's photo
Sun 12/28/08 07:43 AM
Focus on the positive aspects Honey.

Total freedom. Your time and money are yours to do with as you please. You can now view everyone like you are looking at a smorgas board...now you have the luxury to pick and choose.

It ain't a bad gig if you have the right frame of mind.

dallaschase's photo
Sun 12/28/08 03:24 PM
Hi-Im Chase_

JayLy's photo
Mon 12/29/08 11:58 PM
Edited by JayLy on Tue 12/30/08 12:02 AM
"Krupa" > Thank you for that. I had forgotten about the positive...I'm moving along in the 7 stages of my trainwreck (loss)- I think. I can't breathe now.

ChrisMarines05's photo
Tue 12/30/08 01:33 PM
but yeah definitely krupas advice is good.
just surround yourself with friends and spend time with them itll help take your mind off your new status.

a4realn08's photo
Tue 12/30/08 02:36 PM
You are in the right place....
Welcome to the best site on the net..flowerforyou

uscgredfish's photo
Sat 01/03/09 02:53 PM
I like the reply about having a good mindset. It truly helps. I'm 2 months single still not completely healed. Yet its nice to be able to take care of me. As well as meet some new people. DATE not relationship

JayLy's photo
Sat 01/03/09 05:31 PM

I like the reply about having a good mindset. It truly helps. I'm 2 months single still not completely healed. Yet its nice to be able to take care of me. As well as meet some new people. DATE not relationship



So glad to hear you seam to moving in the right direction!! Got ya on the dating piece- I have learned any kind of loss you have to go thru the "Stages". Hopefully, I get thru super fast & you too :). So much to do, live & be happy about!!
Funny me saying that- I'm like special-ed right now. oh well...:p
Many thanks, JayLy

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Sun 01/04/09 06:44 PM

welcome to what I'm afraid to ask!? I have not been single in years! ahhh
if I was 20 years younger you wouldn't be single longdrool

JayLy's photo
Mon 01/05/09 04:36 PM


welcome to what I'm afraid to ask!? I have not been single in years! ahhh
if I was 20 years younger you wouldn't be single longdrool



I'll take that as a bid compliment!! :) thank you.

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Mon 01/05/09 06:06 PM



welcome to what I'm afraid to ask!? I have not been single in years! ahhh
if I was 20 years younger you wouldn't be single longdrool



I'll take that as a bid compliment!! :) thank you.
that's zactly what it was. you're quite welcome...flowerforyou

uscgredfish's photo
Mon 01/05/09 06:24 PM
Thats the funny thing about talking with friends, or new people. You can always come up with something to make them feel better. Sometimes its advice you should take yourself.

I wouldn't call it special ed just yet. Just a little goofy. But if you can't laugh at yourself sometimes your taking life to seriously.

Hang in there kid you'll make it!

~SK

JayLy's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:58 PM

Thats the funny thing about talking with friends, or new people. You can always come up with something to make them feel better. Sometimes its advice you should take yourself.

I wouldn't call it special ed just yet. Just a little goofy. But if you can't laugh at yourself sometimes your taking life to seriously.

Hang in there kid you'll make it!

~SK

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