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Topic: Ladies, what is your experience?
Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/26/08 08:26 PM
Do you think guys with sisters treat women better than guys without sisters? And, what about their relationship with their mother? Does it make a difference in how they treat you as a significant other?

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Fri 12/26/08 08:32 PM
Oh yeah. My brother is the only son that hung out with my little sister and me. He grew up to be a sweet gentlemen. I've also talked to a few other guys with sisters. They are sweet as well. I think it depends on how many girls surrounds the guy in the family.

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Fri 12/26/08 08:35 PM
Do you think guys with sisters treat women better than guys without sisters? And, what about their relationship with their mother? Does it make a difference in how they treat you as a significant other? Well, my ex was an only boy with 2 sisters. He revered his mother and one sister. The other sister he didnt get along with. He treated strangers better than he treated me.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Fri 12/26/08 08:35 PM
Do you think guys with sisters treat women better than guys without sisters? And, what about their relationship with their mother? Does it make a difference in how they treat you as a significant other? OMG!!! If you ever heard the way my brothers and I talk to my sister..... Well. Let's just say it would probably ruin my " decent guy " reputation...lmao

evilpoetess Joined Tue 08/26/08 Posts: 53	Fri 12/26/08 08:36 PM
My experience has been that a guy who is disrespectful to his mother will be disrespectful to me.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Fri 12/26/08 08:37 PM
Do you think guys with sisters treat women better than guys without sisters? And, what about their relationship with their mother? Does it make a difference in how they treat you as a significant other? the guy im seeing is the youngest and he has 2 older sisters and he has shown to have alot of respect for woman.. and i find him to be pretty awsome

punk0027 Joined Mon 06/25/07 Posts: 240	Fri 12/26/08 08:39 PM
Definitelyguys with sisters are much more in touch with female energy and also more self confident as adults

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Fri 12/26/08 08:40 PM
Doesn't matter.....Anyone can turn into Norman Bates

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Fri 12/26/08 08:41 PM
My experience has been that a guy who is disrespectful to his mother will be disrespectful to me. I think that depends on the relationship the guy has with his Mom. My Mom and I have a relationship that goes, She says just about anything to me, and I say just about anything to her. It may seem disrespectful to some, but that is just the way my Mom and I are. That, by no stretch, means that I would be disrespectful to my significant other.

HockeyChick Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 4194	Fri 12/26/08 08:44 PM
in some cases, sure

evilpoetess Joined Tue 08/26/08 Posts: 53	Fri 12/26/08 08:52 PM
My experience has been that a guy who is disrespectful to his mother will be disrespectful to me. I think that depends on the relationship the guy has with his Mom. My Mom and I have a relationship that goes, She says just about anything to me, and I say just about anything to her. It may seem disrespectful to some, but that is just the way my Mom and I are. That, by no stretch, means that I would be disrespectful to my significant other. Oh I agree with you. My daughter and I talk to each other in ways that people would construe as disrepectful - but it is the way we interact and is done in a spirit of love and humor. I meant true meanness and lack of respect. (like the way my ex treated his mom, for example.)

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Fri 12/26/08 08:58 PM
<---3 sisters & thinks mom is tops!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 12/26/08 09:02 PM
Do you think guys with sisters treat women better than guys without sisters? And, what about their relationship with their mother? Does it make a difference in how they treat you as a significant other? Finally!!!!! A thread about....about....INCEST?????

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/26/08 09:05 PM
So, it would seem that generally this is true. Only Goof's response leaves me disturbed, but everyone else seems to agree that there is some truth to this. Of course, it is a generalization, but I have found this to be a good guage. Especially if there was abuse by the mother. It seems that is a red flag to pay attention to.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 12/26/08 09:07 PM
So, it would seem that generally this is true. Only Goof's response leaves me disturbed, but everyone else seems to agree that there is some truth to this. Of course, it is a generalization, but I have found this to be a good guage. Especially if there was abuse by the mother. It seems that is a red flag to pay attention to. You know you loved my response.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Fri 12/26/08 09:09 PM
So, it would seem that generally this is true. Only Goof's response leaves me disturbed, but everyone else seems to agree that there is some truth to this. Of course, it is a generalization, but I have found this to be a good guage. Especially if there was abuse by the mother. It seems that is a red flag to pay attention to. You know you loved my response. All I can say is that you give incredibly good advice for someone who is so deranged.

BertDCaveman Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 1651	Fri 12/26/08 09:10 PM
I have a sister and I can be an A-hole

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Fri 12/26/08 09:10 PM
So, it would seem that generally this is true. Only Goof's response leaves me disturbed, but everyone else seems to agree that there is some truth to this. Of course, it is a generalization, but I have found this to be a good guage. Especially if there was abuse by the mother. It seems that is a red flag to pay attention to. It may be generally true but it seems sad that it's a double whammy to be abused by your mother as a child and then grow up to be unfit for a healthy relationship too.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Fri 12/26/08 09:13 PM
So, it would seem that generally this is true. Only Goof's response leaves me disturbed, but everyone else seems to agree that there is some truth to this. Of course, it is a generalization, but I have found this to be a good guage. Especially if there was abuse by the mother. It seems that is a red flag to pay attention to. You know you loved my response. All I can say is that you give incredibly good advice for someone who is so deranged. I have my moments of clarity...this is true. Limited as they may be. I don't know if I have ever actually thought about this kind of a relationship. I mean, I love my Mom, and she raised me to be a "man"...course my dad did too, so I got lucky on both accounts. You might be onto something here Ruth. Wonder what Freud whould say?

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Fri 12/26/08 09:18 PM
My experience has been that a guy who is disrespectful to his mother will be disrespectful to me. I think that depends on the relationship the guy has with his Mom. My Mom and I have a relationship that goes, She says just about anything to me, and I say just about anything to her. It may seem disrespectful to some, but that is just the way my Mom and I are. That, by no stretch, means that I would be disrespectful to my significant other. Oh I agree with you. My daughter and I talk to each other in ways that people would construe as disrepectful - but it is the way we interact and is done in a spirit of love and humor. I meant true meanness and lack of respect. (like the way my ex treated his mom, for example.) Fair enough.