Topic: Clean Dating
a4realn08's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:32 AM
Edited by a4realn08 on Fri 12/26/08 08:33 AM
So i am a guy that is in a 12 step program. It is the center of me. When i am trying to find a girl to just to chat or "Mingle" with they don't seem to be here. I have 11+ years clean. I am wanting to see if there is some fellow members on here.waving

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:34 AM
Congratulations on your sobriety! flowerforyou flowerforyou

a4realn08's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:44 AM
Thanks! I have worked my but off to keep it. Going Thur my "D" was tough, and she was using..Again something else that this disease can and will take away!

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 12/26/08 08:59 AM
Intriguing isn't it? One might be attracted to another in the program but have to understand that they like you share the same disease. Really no guarantees because we only have today.:smile:

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 12/26/08 03:29 PM

So i am a guy that is in a 12 step program. It is the center of me. When i am trying to find a girl to just to chat or "Mingle" with they don't seem to be here. I have 11+ years clean. I am wanting to see if there is some fellow members on here.waving


Here's at least one thread for you. http://mingle2.com/topic/show/169040
Clean, sober, Dog, German shepherd.

DragonFlyTat's photo
Fri 12/26/08 04:52 PM
congrats on your success

a4realn08's photo
Fri 12/26/08 09:13 PM

congrats on your success

Thanks Hun!
So i went to a meeting tonight i am so glad i did. I heard and felt right what i needed. I have had a a couple few days in a row that have been a struggle. Alone on Xmas being alone sad . But i pushed on Thur.Sitting their in the meeting it was a room full of treatment centers. I had a flash back of the day when i first got clean. All the waves in my pond have been rough then all of sudden that pond was some as ice. Peace and serenity. Nice....
Even Though i have to get up at 5 am for work it was well worth it to have gone.
Thank You God, Great Spirit my Guardian Angle.
Do yall relate?

no photo
Fri 12/26/08 10:41 PM
Clean and sober here too.

Winx's photo
Fri 12/26/08 10:45 PM

So i am a guy that is in a 12 step program. It is the center of me. When i am trying to find a girl to just to chat or "Mingle" with they don't seem to be here. I have 11+ years clean. I am wanting to see if there is some fellow members on here.waving


Nice pic.happy

Winx's photo
Fri 12/26/08 10:46 PM

Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

a4realn08's photo
Sat 12/27/08 06:44 PM


Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

Hug NOT Drugs..
BIG HUG!!!!flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Sat 12/27/08 07:20 PM
Edited by Winx on Sat 12/27/08 07:21 PM



Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

Hug NOT Drugs..
BIG HUG!!!!flowerforyou


Yep, hugs not drugs.happy flowerforyou

I can't email you, btw. I'm too old.sad



no photo
Sat 12/27/08 07:23 PM




Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

Hug NOT Drugs..
BIG HUG!!!!flowerforyou


Yep, hugs not drugs.happy flowerforyou

I can't email you, btw. I'm too old.sad





Not for me!happy happy happy

Winx's photo
Sat 12/27/08 07:24 PM
Edited by Winx on Sat 12/27/08 07:27 PM





Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

Hug NOT Drugs..
BIG HUG!!!!flowerforyou


Yep, hugs not drugs.happy flowerforyou

I can't email you, btw. I'm too old.sad





Not for me!happy happy happy


You're a perfect age for me.love

But..you live too far away.sad



a4realn08's photo
Sat 12/27/08 07:27 PM
Yeah thats funny how that works,,,,,frustrated

no photo
Sat 12/27/08 07:28 PM






Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

Hug NOT Drugs..
BIG HUG!!!!flowerforyou


Yep, hugs not drugs.happy flowerforyou

I can't email you, btw. I'm too old.sad





Not for me!happy happy happy


You're a perfect age for me.love

But..you live too far away.sad




I know, I knowgrumble grumble

Winx's photo
Sat 12/27/08 08:23 PM

Yeah thats funny how that works,,,,,frustrated


Yeah, real funny.laugh noway

Winx's photo
Sat 12/27/08 08:23 PM







Clean and sober here too.


:smile: flowerforyou

Hug NOT Drugs..
BIG HUG!!!!flowerforyou


Yep, hugs not drugs.happy flowerforyou

I can't email you, btw. I'm too old.sad



Not for me!happy happy happy


You're a perfect age for me.love

But..you live too far away.sad


I know, I knowgrumble grumble


grumble