How do i go about findin someone online? this is my first try! I understand use the forums and all but i mean for some reason it always seems like older women are interested in me and im only 18! How can i find a girl through forums or whatever?

Stalk them...keep looking at there profile everyday, over and over again...they will either email you or get a restraining order...good luck

ahaha nice i dont need to do all that online! I am a security guard at a buisness where i see attractive women all day! lol whats weird is back home in VA i could basicaly have anyone woman i wanted now that im in the big city it seems impossible!

There are some younger girls your age that post in the forums. It just depends when they come online. Also, go through Mutual Match. You can set an age preference through your search before going on MM. That can help. Best wishes on your search.

thanks yeah i did that

Basically by what you just said by e-mails and posting on the forums. Myself my best advice would be to always be respectful don't say things on the forums you don't want others to know.


Remember even if your a very open person there are still some things that are best left off the forums. Some will read it and take it wrong and well they just judge you without getting to know you.

But then if your rude and crude on line they will in fact be happy they saw it ahead of time. And will indeed write you off as someone they would really like to get know.

The way I see it most the time don't say something you would not want a person that you respect read what you have posted.

If in fact the older women look your way say thank you very much but I'm seriously looking for someone around my age. That is not knocking the age factor just stating truth in a polite way.

Good luck within your journey and may you find all that you are looking for.

Ohhh and what ever you do never ignore the red flags waving when something or someone sounds too perfect hello. Life as we know it is not perfect we all have flaws watch out for those that are players or scammers!!

Ohhhh yeah and watch them hop off the train real fast shshsh

good advice

Hey...I never did it...just wanted to see what would happen to him

Thank you very much :):)

yeah its hard for me to approach women cause im real shy and i tend to lock up LOL

Listen to the train, his words are invaluable!

Yeah see the truth come out when your confronted shshsh now at least give the guy some sound advice that want get his manhood stuck in a vice and on the grind motion.

I mean even if we have not found the right things to do we can at least save a few from doing some of the crazy things we might have done. lmao

Life is a gamble no one knows all the correct moves if we did we would all have the perfect life and relationship. All we can do is make our mistakes and learn from others that are willing to at least give us a heads up in some areas.

Yeah I'm still looking we take one day at a time. Memory is a great tool. If your talking to someone listen to what they say really listen and remember what they like ect.. it does pay off in the long run.

And never crisscross two different persons likes with another heck keep a journal if ya have too. Nothing worse them bring up what someone else said to you and in fact you have the wrong person that said that.

Thank you very much :)

Peccy knows....heres my advice...ignore them and they will come...it drives women nuts to be ignored

maybe change into a young and expectant individual. We get what we focus on