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Because........if sex is that awsome, it's the primary focus. The relationship developement can end up getting the short end of the stick.
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Because........if sex is that awsome, it's the primary focus. The relationship developement can end up getting the short end of the stick. I still have to say that the sex is better when there is more elsewhere |
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Because........if sex is that awsome, it's the primary focus. The relationship developement can end up getting the short end of the stick. I still have to say that the sex is better when there is more elsewhere  Be a doll!
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Posted this in the sex thread. But since that doesn't show up, thought I would post it here, since I think it belongs here anyway.... As I was sitting in a hot bath before bed, a thought crossed my mind and I started to contemplate it and look at past relationships. Which lead me to this question: Does really fabulous sex get in the way of forming a lasting relationship? You've know a guy for a little while, things are going really really great, and when you finally get to the point of sex it is completely fantastic. And as time goes by, you realize the guy has come to think of you in terms of sex rather than a girlfriend or a relationship. I'm wondering this because I'm looking back and the better the sex, the shorter the relationship. The better the sex, the more the guy stops doing relationship things sooner. And only focuses on the sex. The better the sex, the soon the guy decides to move on looking for the relationship they started, but with someone else. And I'm not talking about jumping in bed with someone too soon either. I'm talking about when both of you have invested time in getting to know each other and are really starting something before throwing sex into the mix. Is this just me or is there something to this idea? Wow. You have been dealing with some really f*cked up dudes. If the sex is THAT good, then a smart dude would make sure to KEEP doing the " relationship things ". |
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I dont think a good realtionship can survive with bad sex,.... but a bad relationship might be saved with some real good sex.... im still looking for either..LOLOLOL Agreed I've broken up with girls strictly because they suck in bed. I also stayed in a bad relationship for a year too long because she was phenomenal in bed. |
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Posted this in the sex thread. But since that doesn't show up, thought I would post it here, since I think it belongs here anyway.... As I was sitting in a hot bath before bed, a thought crossed my mind and I started to contemplate it and look at past relationships. Which lead me to this question: Does really fabulous sex get in the way of forming a lasting relationship? You've know a guy for a little while, things are going really really great, and when you finally get to the point of sex it is completely fantastic. And as time goes by, you realize the guy has come to think of you in terms of sex rather than a girlfriend or a relationship. I'm wondering this because I'm looking back and the better the sex, the shorter the relationship. The better the sex, the more the guy stops doing relationship things sooner. And only focuses on the sex. The better the sex, the soon the guy decides to move on looking for the relationship they started, but with someone else. And I'm not talking about jumping in bed with someone too soon either. I'm talking about when both of you have invested time in getting to know each other and are really starting something before throwing sex into the mix. Is this just me or is there something to this idea? Wow. You have been dealing with some really f*cked up dudes. If the sex is THAT good, then a smart dude would make sure to KEEP doing the " relationship things ". Exactly......and might I add that women view sex differently than men. If you have great mind blowing sex with your man, he views this as the greatest compliment and the greatest respect and love you can give him. A man will fall over himself taking care of you if he knows that you love and respect him. IMO, men view making love as you showing them how much you care. When a woman withholds this, it can be viewed as her not caring anymore. That said, sex too quickly in a relationship can be disastrous. If you haven't had time to form that respect and caring for each other, the sex turns to gratification and nothing else. Also, I don't believe that you can have "bad sex" with someone you love. Two mature adults can evolve a sexual relationship by sharing what they like and what feels good to them. Someone who's bad in the sack simply doesn't care enough to make it good, or just really needs some teaching! |
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No, because for me great sex would go hand in hand with the emotional attachment. I wouldn't be able to have great sex with someone I wasn't happy with in other ways.
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If the guy starts looking at it as only a sexual relationship than he never saw it as anything else to begin with. He may have let you believe he did, but he didn't.
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Posted this in the sex thread. But since that doesn't show up, thought I would post it here, since I think it belongs here anyway.... As I was sitting in a hot bath before bed, a thought crossed my mind and I started to contemplate it and look at past relationships. Which lead me to this question: Does really fabulous sex get in the way of forming a lasting relationship? You've know a guy for a little while, things are going really really great, and when you finally get to the point of sex it is completely fantastic. And as time goes by, you realize the guy has come to think of you in terms of sex rather than a girlfriend or a relationship. I'm wondering this because I'm looking back and the better the sex, the shorter the relationship. The better the sex, the more the guy stops doing relationship things sooner. And only focuses on the sex. The better the sex, the soon the guy decides to move on looking for the relationship they started, but with someone else. And I'm not talking about jumping in bed with someone too soon either. I'm talking about when both of you have invested time in getting to know each other and are really starting something before throwing sex into the mix. Is this just me or is there something to this idea? Wow. You have been dealing with some really f*cked up dudes. If the sex is THAT good, then a smart dude would make sure to KEEP doing the " relationship things ". Exactly......and might I add that women view sex differently than men. If you have great mind blowing sex with your man, he views this as the greatest compliment and the greatest respect and love you can give him. A man will fall over himself taking care of you if he knows that you love and respect him. IMO, men view making love as you showing them how much you care. When a woman withholds this, it can be viewed as her not caring anymore. That said, sex too quickly in a relationship can be disastrous. If you haven't had time to form that respect and caring for each other, the sex turns to gratification and nothing else. Also, I don't believe that you can have "bad sex" with someone you love. Two mature adults can evolve a sexual relationship by sharing what they like and what feels good to them. Someone who's bad in the sack simply doesn't care enough to make it good, or just really needs some teaching! Well said! 
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Well said! Hey thanks! |
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